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#1
May 16, 2016, 07:23 AM
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Okay, so I am feel annoyed and basically feel like I want to shot myself in the face basically I am tired of Facebook but I can't delete it because somehow I have become addicted to using it to keep my friendships and getting friendships instead of going outside and meeting people. Basically, I am very annoyed because their has been this guy talking to me and he wants to know if I am a virgin but I don't want any talk at all about sex talk so I have been ignoring and changing the subject. Well, he has asked to see me in a bikini because he has never seen a girl in a bikini. I didn't reply thought that was an odd request and then like a few days later he asks me if I am a virgin I am not comfortable with answering that question and I don't think it is anyone's business what I do sexually. It bothers me and triggers me when people (men) ask me that question. So for just that reason I want to date Facebook and live in a cave. Afterall the reason why I stopped going outside was to avoid as much as possible encounters with men. I don't trust any of them especially with my body so if they want me to be sexual they will have to earn my trust or **** off to hell I don't need or want you. Also, do you think I would be happier without Facebook to worry about weirdos and freaks?
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#2
May 16, 2016, 07:28 AM
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No, don't delete your account. Just delete this guy. He's just a perv.
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#3
May 16, 2016, 07:29 AM
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I get friend requests from random men on Facebook all the time. I just ignore them. I don't friend anyone I don't know.
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#4
May 16, 2016, 07:32 AM
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He hasn't friend requested me just been talking to me in private message
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#5
May 16, 2016, 07:36 AM
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He's like "aww ok how many boys have you dated and have you ever done it?"
HIM:"if thats okay to ask" HIM:"Sorry if I say weird things" ME: no reply |
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#6
May 16, 2016, 07:37 AM
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Honestly though all men are sleazebags just kill me now so its over and done with. I AM IN TOTAL AGONY!
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#7
May 16, 2016, 08:01 AM
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No, they are not all sleaze bags. Only the ones who hit on vulnerable girls on Facebook for cheap thrills are. You are not the only one having random guys trying to get sexual thrills from you- just ignore and block him.
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#8
May 16, 2016, 08:42 AM
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That's true and some of them have no idea how to communicate to girls...
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#9
May 16, 2016, 01:54 PM
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Don't allow random strangers to contact you on Facebook. Lock down your security settings so that doesn't happen any longer.
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#10
May 16, 2016, 02:40 PM
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Yeah, you need to block this guy and change your settings so you don't get PMs from random people that you don't know.
I don't think you need to delete Facebook, just need to be choosier about who you actually chat with. Seesaw |
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#11
May 16, 2016, 02:46 PM
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Black Roses, please don't take this the wrong way, but you have been on porn sites camming for attention, maybe the guys are finding you through that and looking you up on Facebook because they saw you on the porn sites.
I know the desperation of wanting to socialize but can't trust anyone out in the real world, thus turning to the webs for it. However, there are different ways to get what you want with varying results. Think about it.
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#12
May 16, 2016, 02:57 PM
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No.
Don't delete. You don't want a permanent action that you may later regret in a few months time. Your better option is to deactivate it. You can do this under settings. This way your facebook goes "frozen" for a while. It "appears" to people on the other side as if your facebook has been deleted, but it hasn't. At any stage that you want to reinstate it, you simply log in. |
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#13
May 16, 2016, 02:58 PM
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Oops sorry blackroses - I just read the other posts in here you made and saw why you wanted to delete.
Just block the jerk. |
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#14
May 16, 2016, 03:25 PM
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I am with artchic on this. If you post on porn sites ( pictures and yourself in action) that's how they probably find you. If you don't want that kind of attention then why post porn? It could easily get around etc
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#15
May 16, 2016, 10:33 PM
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I never post myself naked I use other girls I only use like my face
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#16
May 16, 2016, 11:14 PM
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If you don't want that kind of attention then you have to stop asking for it with your actions.
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#17
May 17, 2016, 02:28 AM
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I guess so but also my sister says she gets randoms as well I guess it says more about the guys then it does about me because I only have my profile pic me smiling and the only photos they can see is facial pics. I guess they are just lonely weirdos.
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#18
May 17, 2016, 04:51 AM
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I don't mean you post your pics on Facebook. You said on other thread that you post your pics on porn sites and do cam ( I think it means doing something on camera) etc you said you find it creative and liberating or something. I am saying if somebody saw you there ( even if you use someone else body which made no sense to me), they might find you on Facebook too. I don't know if they are lonely or not. Why isn't your profile private?
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#19
May 17, 2016, 07:01 AM
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They aren't just lonely if they got your information off a porn site. They are looking for action & since you are on there they assume those are the lack of moral values you have too. We are known by the company we keep.
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#20
May 17, 2016, 09:08 AM
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It's already on private so I don't understand the random guys I guess they are just bored people looking for someone to chat too...
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May 17, 2016, 04:35 PM
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#22
May 17, 2016, 10:59 PM
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and weirdo sleazebags I traditionally ignore them but then if I ignored all of them I wouldn't find the nice decent ones.
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#23
May 18, 2016, 07:15 PM
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You're not going to find "nice and decent" posting pics and videos on porn sites. Come on now. How old are you? Once you put yourself out there online, it's written in stone. You need some better judgement here. No wonder this guy is asking you questions like that. If you don't like it then block him or quit using porn for attention.
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#24
May 18, 2016, 08:42 PM
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You contradict yourself. If you believe they are sleaze bags and weirdos then why post on porn sites? That's exactly how you attract sleazy men. You aren't going to meet nice and decent ones this way
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#25
May 18, 2016, 10:07 PM
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yeah but the porn sight has nothing to do with my facebook.
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