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Old May 16, 2016, 05:45 PM
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This girl from church posted a picture on twitter of her and another girl from my small group hanging out, but whats weird is she doesnt usually post pictures on twitter usually she posts them on instagram or Facebook, and she didnt post this picture on instagram or Facebook. She knows I am a friend of her on facebook and instagram but I am not following her on Twitter so I dont think she knows I have a Twitter. Why would she post the picture on Twitter instead of Instagram or Facebook? Do you think she was trying to hide the post from me thinking I wouldnt see it because she thinks I dont have Twitter? This was after she told me she is really busy the next few weeks and wouldnt have time to hang out. Then I see this picture of her hanging out with this other person, so she has time to hang out with them but not me? And yesterday, I followed her on Twitter to find out she blocked me a few hours later. Today I looked at her account without logging in saw that she tweeted about yet another hangout with this friend last night. This was after I had messaged her yesterday afternoon asking when she could hang out next and she said late June.
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Old May 16, 2016, 08:11 PM
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That is some odd behavior. It does sound like she didn't want you to see the post, but why? Can you think of any reason why she'd go to such lengths?
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Old May 16, 2016, 08:22 PM
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Maybe you need to give her some space and just say hello at the small meeting and wait to see if she approaches you. If she doesn't just put her in the acquaintance files instead of the friend file.
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Old May 16, 2016, 08:36 PM
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This was after I had messaged her yesterday afternoon asking when she could hang out next and she said late June.
For whatever reason, she does not want to hang out with you. I agree with Nammu's suggestion to be civil but distant at group.

Also, I would suggest that you avoid her on social media.

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This was after she told me she is really busy the next few weeks and wouldnt have time to hang out. Then I see this picture of her hanging out with this other person, so she has time to hang out with them but not me?
Yes that does seem to be the case. For whatever reason, she wants space from you right now.
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Old May 16, 2016, 08:37 PM
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It sounds as if you value the relationship more than she does. You cannot make her want your friendship. If it were me I would be cordial to her at church but otherwise I'd break off all communication with her on social media.
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Old May 18, 2016, 09:03 PM
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This girl from church posted a picture on twitter of her and another girl from my small group hanging out, but whats weird is she doesnt usually post pictures on twitter usually she posts them on instagram or Facebook, and she didnt post this picture on instagram or Facebook. She knows I am a friend of her on facebook and instagram but I am not following her on Twitter so I dont think she knows I have a Twitter. Why would she post the picture on Twitter instead of Instagram or Facebook? Do you think she was trying to hide the post from me thinking I wouldnt see it because she thinks I dont have Twitter? This was after she told me she is really busy the next few weeks and wouldnt have time to hang out. Then I see this picture of her hanging out with this other person, so she has time to hang out with them but not me? And yesterday, I followed her on Twitter to find out she blocked me a few hours later. Today I looked at her account without logging in saw that she tweeted about yet another hangout with this friend last night. This was after I had messaged her yesterday afternoon asking when she could hang out next and she said late June.
Is this the same friend you posted about before? The one who posted on FB that she was hanging out with a group of girls from church, but didn't invite you?
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Old May 19, 2016, 06:51 AM
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Is this the same friend you posted about before? The one who posted on FB that she was hanging out with a group of girls from church, but didn't invite you?
This question comes to my mind too.
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Old May 19, 2016, 06:47 PM
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She isn't a friend really

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Old May 19, 2016, 06:59 PM
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Who cares? Move on.

I have a feeling you know darn well why she doesn't want to be friends with you. I know that your friends have a reason and you have yet to reveal it.
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