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Jun 01, 2016, 10:48 AM
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Hello everyone!
I'm in this relationship for almost 1 year. In the beginning everything was so intense and passionate. So we decided to move in together and he came to live in my house. In the first 3 months everything was cool but after that we started fighting for everything. And every time we had a fight he used to say that he would leave the house, move out. And it scared me because I never wanted him to leave. I love him. But after 7 months living together we had this last fight and he moved out. It got me devastated. But we kept the relationship in name of the love that we feel for each other. But he has changed. I don't feel that he's there for me anymore. Sometimes I feel like he's avoiding me somehow and those situations has been more and more frequent. Lately I turned to a paranoid person, jealous and obsessive person because of him. I show him how much I'm hurt and how much his behavior has got me sad and so stressed out. But seems like he doesn't care at all. It's so weird because he tells me all the time that he loves me and I'm the one and only for him and otherwise he's not there for me. He used to show me affection, dedication, attention but now it's all just memories in my mind. I feel like I'm losing myself with this love. How come so much love can bring us so much pain and sadness? I just don't understand. Why he acts like he doesn't care and when we're together he just turns to be the perfect love? And that actions of him make me feel crazy. I really don't know what to do. I can't even see hope for us but I can't get my strings detached out of him. I just wanted to be happy... 
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Jun 01, 2016, 02:41 PM
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I'm confused, maybe not as much as you, but certainly confused too.
You say he acts like he doesn't care and isn't there for you, but in the same breath you say everything is perfect when you're together.... Do you mind clarifying what it is you mean exactly? I'm so sorry you're hurting, your pain is evident in your post, I hope the feedback you receive from our members help.
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Last edited by Trippin2.0; Jun 01, 2016 at 03:30 PM. |
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Jun 01, 2016, 03:00 PM
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Same as tipping I am confused as how is it a perfect love when you are together yet his affection is just a memory. Sorry you are struggling
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