[Sbpitcher13]

Me and my ex were together for over a year. We lived together, he has my name tattooed on him. To make a long story short I caught him in a lie and he blew up on me said he’s done this time for good he’s been unhappy for a while and etc.. The next day he said sorry gave me a kiss called me babe but I was still mad so he blew up again and said the same things to me… I’m pregnant and he said he wants to be civil but after that I found out there was another woman involved, his sister confronted her and now he wants nothing to do with me.. There were never any signs of him being unhappy and we used to talk about our future everyday.. He even told me and his cousin he was going to regret this decision so why is he doing this? Is he confused? Scared about the baby? He said he wants me to leave but I have no where to go.. He is staying at his girlfriends house every night and said it was because of me… He said he wants answers and wants me out because it’s his family not his ( we are staying with his parents) but he doesn’t even treat them like family.. Why is he acting like this?

[Bill3]

I am sorry to say that I could not guess what is going through his mind and leading him to act as he is acting.

Are his parents willing for you to stay? You might want to put together a plan for living away from him and them, just in case. Do make sure that he is aware of his financial responsibilities for your child, and follow up in court if he refuses to pay.

I am very sorry that you have to go through all of this now, while pregnant.

[~Christina]

Contact a lawyer now. Since he is so back and forth ....paperwork needs to be drawn up where the child support money is taken directly out of his paycheck so, then you won't have to hear any excuses about how he can't pay. Also keep in mind any costs health wise during your pregnancy he is also responsible. I'm sorry your going through all this.

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Definitely contact a lawyer now. Also, you should see your OB/GYN ASAP to get tested for STDs, HIV, etc. So sorry you are going through this.

[Crazy Hitch]

You deserve to be someone's priority, not a second choice

[divine1966]

See a doctor and then a lawyer ASAP. It doesn't matter why he does what he does but he needs to take financial responsibility . I agree about checking for STD etc do you have any family that help you in terms of place to stay?

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[healingme4me]

Him staying with another woman is a total deal breaker. And it's certainly no reflection on you.

My niece just filed in September for child support for her 7yr old. The hearing is in July. Ugh. They've been separated for years, unwed. I'm not certain why it's taking forever. I recommended that she go for garnishment. He's going to claim he's not working, although she has something in writing saying that he is. Most likely under the table. It's a tough path getting to the point of child support, but worth it.
From the beginning of my own divorce, we established as wage garnishment. First it does come out pretax. Second it takes that risk away of, ohhh something came up, can you wait an extra week. Once the department of revenue is involved, which this is, it's no joke. You'll have access to accurate financial history of payment and it keeps things honest and fluid. I can't say enough about the advice for garnishment that you've already have been given. My ex may have not been right for me on many levels, but this....child support maintains his honor, only possible because this was the path taken.