[galeckifan]

I am so ugly, I cant be afraid to be beautiful because I couldnt be beautiful if I tried. The girlsat my church are so much prettier than me especially this one girl who was going on and on in a FB post about being afraid to be beautiful because others may get the wrong idea that she is trying to be inappropriate or slutty or something. This is what she said "Sometimes I am afraid to be beautiful. Literally, afraid to dress nice or to be attractive or even sexy, because sometimes I think that I could come off as inappropriate or immodest. Crazy right?? This summer I've bought myself this nice high waisted bikini that looks AWESOME on my (not so tiny) body, and I am fighting thoughts of what others might think! I've had enough of that, I'm gonna rock my new swimwear!! 👊🏼💥
I want to hear your thoughts on this ladies!! Let's be real here, we've all probably been through this one way or another! What is a scripture that comes to your mind when you read this? The one that comes to me is Song of Songs 4:7..."You are altogether beautiful my darling, there is no flaw in you."
Let's be empowered and beautiful together! And not be afraid to face the world in purity and boldness! Please share a picture of your favorite summer outfit and an empowering scripture to go with it! Love you ladies! And let's not even care what others might think! 1-2-3 GO! Let's do this! 💪🏼"And she tagged every other girl in my small group except me saying I know you girls can relate, and you are all beautiful. But she didnt tag me, probably because she thinks Im not beautiful. Yeah I wish I had that problem, its no wonder she and the other girls dislike me because I am so ugly.

[scorpiosis37]

They do not dislike you or exclude you because of your appearance. The problem is your behavior. We have pointed out to you that you are acting entitled and ungrateful and expecting them to give you rides and do you favors when you give nothing back. Change your behavior and you will have better results.

[Nammu]

I doubt very much her not tagging has anything to do with your looks and everything to do with you clinging to them and trying to make them be your friends. they clearly want you to leave them alone. Eveyone here has told you this many times.

[rdgrad15]

It has nothing to do with how you look. Just like with the previous posters, it is because you are clingy and push them away. Please just stop torturing yourself and leave them alone. I know it is hard, trust me, we've all been there. But sometimes you just need to move on and find other people to hang out with. And like I said, actually try to take advice from this site, people are actually trying to help and you not changing is ,along people really mad.

[galeckifan]

Originally Posted by Nammu

I doubt very much her not tagging has anything to do with your looks and everything to do with you clinging to them and trying to make them be your friends. they clearly want you to leave them alone. Eveyone here has told you this many times.

Why don't they want to be my friends? And they didnt want to be my friend from the beginning so it cant be because of me acting clingy and trying to get them to be my friend

[LadyShadow]

Originally Posted by galeckifan

Why don't they want to be my friends? And they didnt want to be my friend from the beginning so it cant be because of me acting clingy and trying to get them to be my friend

I really don't think you're listening to anyone. You have to start looking within. Seriously. Stop and look within, and stop trying to force yourself on these people. It really isn't helpful to you or them.

[TishaBuv]

Can you describe what happened in the very beginning to the point where you decided they didn't like you? Maybe we can figure out what happened.

[galeckifan]

Originally Posted by TishaBuv

Can you describe what happened in the very beginning to the point where you decided they didn't like you? Maybe we can figure out what happened.

I don't know what happened

[A Red Panda]

They don't like you. Plain and simple. They don't. They likely never did, but have been nice and patient with you because they are quite religious.

They don't need to have or give you a reason. It isn't any different from someone disliking chocolate - it doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with chocolate, and they likely don't have a reason besides "I just don't like it".

It hurts to accept that not everyone will like you. You misread their kindness as a desire for friendship when it wasn't, and now you are struggling when reality isn't matching up with your fantasy.

How long have they been a group of friends at that church? How long have you been going to that church?

[Crazy Hitch]

galek, you really do need to find a new circle of friends. These people have been sending you the same persistent message for a long time now. Sorry I am at such a loss as to what else to say right now.

Put that bikini on and don't worry what others think.

[TishaBuv]

Originally Posted by galeckifan

I don't know what happened

Tell the story about the beginning in the order it happened if you can. I think this will help you figure things out. Don't just give an answer like you don't know. Can you tell what you did, thought, saw, remember?

[divine1966]

There are plenty of people I don't want to be friends with. It doesn't mean anything. It doesn't mean I don't like them. People can't be friends with everybody.

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Sometimes we never know why someone doesn't like us, sometimes it might be something we unknowingly did, other times it's just their preference (not everyone clicks).

I would recommend moving on, and either unfriending or unfollowing their facebook posts because it seems to be triggering negative feelings within you.

[mugwort2]

Obviously no idea what you look like. From the replies I'd say if possible find a new group of people who are able to be your friends. Can't go to 2 page. ISP won't permit.

[Crazy Hitch]

I've long learned to accept the fact that not everyone in this world will like me, and nor should they. Not exactly as if I like everyone I meet.

So odd, I had you pinned as guy this whole time. Anyway, I still think you should find a new church AND make sure you handle your transportation. Good luck.

[Crazy Hitch]

Awwww shucks ((rainy))

I hate to say but somehow or other I kinda always knew the OP was female lol

I probably screwed up. Sorry, OP! Same advice, though. xo