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Jul 01, 2016, 06:40 AM
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So,I've been going out on dates with this guy(we are not exclusive)and I really like him(I dream about him,think about him all the time)but we are in this stage were I don't know what we are.The issue is that I am getting so anxious(can't sleep properly)and I think all the time he doesn't like me because I am awful and then I will get heartbroken and stuff(basically I overthink).I have talked to my therapist about this and she says because I am very sensitive I would have noticed if he was only using me(we are on our 7th date).How can I be less anxious and calm down about this?
PS:My Anxiety over this is killing me |
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Jul 01, 2016, 06:47 AM
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When a guy likes, he calls, he goes on dates with you. If you are on your 7th date, he likes you. Relax. How much he likes you is to be determined. It is a more attractive quality to be happy, relaxed, and enjoy your time with him than to be worried, needy, and asking him how he feels. So, I say just be careful enough that you don't let someone take advantage of you, but relaxed enough that you have a good time.
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Jul 01, 2016, 07:11 AM
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Don't haves sex but enjoy his company. If he keeps seeing you he likes you
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Jul 01, 2016, 07:14 AM
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Wow. 7 dates. That's great! Anything over 3 and it's looking promising. Focus on your happiness and try live "in the moment" savouring it as it happens rather than worrying about future events that may not happen.
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Jul 01, 2016, 07:55 AM
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You could always just ask if he'd like to become exclusive.
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Jul 01, 2016, 09:30 AM
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Jul 01, 2016, 09:30 AM
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Jul 01, 2016, 09:31 AM
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Jul 01, 2016, 09:32 AM
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Jul 01, 2016, 09:38 AM
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You need to become exclusive if you decide to become intimate. If you are just dating then it's ok not to address the issue. Most certainly discuss it if you two start to get physical
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