Sister being to harsh to mum and it hurts me

black-roses · Aug 09, 2016, 05:35 PM

So anyway yesterday when we came here to Madeira my sister was insulting my mother because she made a mistake and packed scissors to large by accident. Swore at her in the airport in front of guards and everyone calling her stupid saying she was a ***** etc. The guard hadn't even spoke yet and she was just insulting mum I stood there not understand why she had to say all that stuff to mum even if it was just 300mls of facial stuff that they wouldn't let through security. Today we were out all day at the beach we went home and now she was going off that mum was stupid because she left the balcony door open and people could have jumped in. Basically I couldn't put up with her being a ***** any longer and I told her "what are they going to jump ten feet to get in you just want an excuse to ***** about mum" then she tells me I don't want you near me. She says something about what if the bottom door was open because we are staying at a three story house. "I said it wasn't". Basically, I just couldn't deal with her thinking she could just treat people like **** use them as goods and then discard them away. I had enough of her attitude and I don't understand it mum has done nothing but bend over backwards and now she's just finding openings to rip her to pieces. I honestly don't like it and I am very angry and disappointed at how she is treating mum. Also when I told her I didn't like that she was mistreating mum she said "it is rich coming from you". Then I was like I wasn't the one swearing at mum until I was almost arrested. I then walked away and went to the second storey to look out the window to have my deep breaths. I just felt so sad at how she was treating mum especially when she wasn't even there to defend herself. When I was at the airport I didn't tell her off I was more neutral to both but then seeing her have a go at her at scenarios she is imagining in her head is where I draw the line. Basically, I don't know what to do and I wanted to tell someone in the family about what was happening but then I didn't want to annoy them with my problems. I know in my past i wasn't perfect but because I know what it is like to be punished for crimes in the past. I know what unforgiveness feels like I know what it is like to have my dirty past be broadcasted to the world then kicked down when I had changed to be a better person and this is why seeing how mum is being treated rips my heart in two. Everyone deserves the chance to be forgiven have there tears wiped and told that they are loved.