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Old Aug 03, 2016, 01:37 AM
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I've had not too much interaction lately except recently at my new job, and people out here are very pissy like they got some problem with me even when I'm not talking to them or when I'm minding my own they got something to start with. It's frustrating I moved far away to Frisco Tx and miss so many people I was close with and having to start new here definitely won't be easy. I plan on trying to meet people at hookah bars and probably some meetup groups or at colleges wherever.
My ex and I are done because of the move and that has spiralled into a disaster.

I feel cheated out of this whole move. That it's not fair, I don't mind making new friends, but it's definitely a problem when now I really have no one I relate to. I'm just here with some little bit of family.
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Old Aug 03, 2016, 12:30 PM
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Hello Yismymindblank12: Well... I've never been to Texas or to Cincinnati either. But I can imagine this must be quite a change for you! I do think it can be difficult making new friends in a large metropolitan area. Good luck with your efforts!
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Old Aug 03, 2016, 01:32 PM
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Hello Yismymindblank12: Well... I've never been to Texas or to Cincinnati either. But I can imagine this must be quite a change for you! I do think it can be difficult making new friends in a large metropolitan area. Good luck with your efforts!
It took me at least 2 years to start msking friends now i have no one here. I really can't do what I usually do. When I'm feeling lonely I'll mope but hide it in confidence.. I pretend to care when I don't and prefer being in my own place than in the company of others I wont ever see past at the most a week.
Rather before I could meet anyone with ease and network with always a frame of reference to keep conversating good, but now I don't have that anymore.

Right now I don't know the layout I do not like the people at work. They are very rude without warrant at least the rudeness in ky was because they do dope and are fiends, but nice when they arebt string out. Here are people who are privileged very privileged and very whiny and always got an attitude.

It's really boring and it's a dry county you can't buy liquor here if you want to party. I mean I do drink with people, but I got nobody so I got no reason to go to a liqour store .

I've tried online meetups, but nothing soon in my area I can make it to because of work and anything that is relevant that remotely interests me. The events and descriptions are very vague.
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Old Aug 03, 2016, 01:47 PM
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I hope things improve soon. Maybe it takes time to make friends?
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Old Aug 04, 2016, 03:44 PM
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I might suggest you move to a different area of the metroplex. You are in a generally very affluent, conservative, privileged area of the Dallas metroplex. Have you explored other areas in Dallas? There is great variety, but there are definitely areas with different cultural "personalities."
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Old Aug 04, 2016, 08:39 PM
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I might suggest you move to a different area of the metroplex. You are in a generally very affluent, conservative, privileged area of the Dallas metroplex. Have you explored other areas in Dallas? There is great variety, but there are definitely areas with different cultural "personalities."
I would prefer thar. Cincinnati is a cultural melting hub people from all over get along generally despite our own issues. This part of Dallas reminds me of Indian hill, sycamore twp in Ohio where the selfish wealthy people who reside near there. They are usually disconnected from the hardest parts of life and really are blinded by an selfish innocence that lacks any empathy because being wealthy only matters.
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Old Aug 06, 2016, 06:23 AM
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When you lived in Cincinnati you had the most horrible things to say about that city. You blamed Cincinnati for many of your issues. You now complain about Dallas. Could it be that location isn't as much of an issue as other things? Typically our issues follow us no matter where we live. Could you find a therapist in Dallas ( or anywhere) and try that?

Also how are you affording living in affluent community? In Cincinnati you worked minimum wage jobs and always said you are completely broke and can't afford anything. What type of job did you get in Texas that immediately changed your financial situation so drastically?

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Old Aug 06, 2016, 04:14 PM
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When you lived in Cincinnati you had the most horrible things to say about that city. You blamed Cincinnati for many of your issues. You now complain about Dallas. Could it be that location isn't as much of an issue as other things? Typically our issues follow us no matter where we live. Could you find a therapist in Dallas ( or anywhere) and try that?

Also how are you affording living in affluent community? In Cincinnati you worked minimum wage jobs and always said you are completely broke and can't afford anything. What type of job did you get in Texas that immediately changed your financial situation so drastically?

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I'm completely aware what you're talking about, it's always been hard on me. I'm doing some new things now to break out of my comfort zone.
I'm very much trying my best to change my outcome.
I currently still live with my parents, but already have another job out here, but planning on finding a better job. I have one temporarily to get me income. I'm saving up to move out on my own nearby.

It was my situation before where my parents kept me hostage financially to let met go be independent. I know the risk of me moving out is I'm scared about my neurological problems will again prevent me from being free soon.
It's gotten a lot worse since the move. I had my back and shoulders go out and it's very painful to breathe at times when it occurs. I ontop of that have many more physiological issues, that I'm trying to overcome even thought there is no cure for this disorder.
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Old Aug 06, 2016, 04:59 PM
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I am sorry you have health issues. I hope you seek medical help.

So you went to Texas with your parents. In the past you said your mother was dying and they are so broke that they wouldn't even help you to go to community college and you wouldn't even qualify to take a loan. Now they up and moved to affluent community out of state. Did they win a lottery? Got awesome jobs all of a sudden? I am just not following how things unravel in your life?

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Old Aug 06, 2016, 06:09 PM
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In fairness, Divine, the community is generally affluent, but that doesn't mean everyone living there is affluent or that there aren't areas that could be more affordable to live.
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Old Aug 06, 2016, 06:53 PM
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In fairness, Divine, the community is generally affluent, but that doesn't mean everyone living there is affluent or that there aren't areas that could be more affordable to live.


That's true. I live in most affluent city in metro area yet I am very far from rich.

I am just surprised that over past few years op described their family as destitute. A year ago they could barely afford food in lived in poverty. Then within few months they relocated out of state to live in affluent city. It costs a lot to even move. I am not saying it's not true but it's just weird story all together. Unless they got great jobs offered. Like very drastic change so sudden

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Old Aug 06, 2016, 11:04 PM
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That's true. I live in most affluent city in metro area yet I am very far from rich.

I am just surprised that over past few years op described their family as destitute. A year ago they could barely afford food in lived in poverty. Then within few months they relocated out of state to live in affluent city. It costs a lot to even move. I am not saying it's not true but it's just weird story all together. Unless they got great jobs offered. Like very drastic change so sudden

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That's exactly what happened. A better job. So soon my dad too.
I'm sorry. I'm just hurting too much. I don't want to be alive.
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Old Aug 07, 2016, 05:57 AM
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I am glad they got good jobs. But please please seek help due to not wanting to live. Please call someone ASAP. Do your parents know?

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Old Aug 12, 2016, 01:23 AM
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I am glad they got good jobs. But please please seek help due to not wanting to live. Please call someone ASAP. Do your parents know?

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No reason to bother trying. They ignore everything wrong with me. More concerned about me making money.
I'm in a weird phase I'm just dissociated from it all. I'm trying to find putpose.
I can't go back home unfortunately and I'm stuck here. I lost 2 of my children.
I gotta find a way out.
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