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Aug 02, 2007, 07:53 PM
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Friends,
I heard this interesting fact on TV. They said that when men know that their wife or girlfriend are going to leave them, the men transfer their sense of worthlessness to the woman, and she becomes the enemy. I just thought I'd share. EJ |
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Aug 02, 2007, 07:57 PM
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Probably true in some percentage...probably a greater percentage that this doesn't apply...besides who says all men feel a sense of worthlessness to transfer...some may be glad she's going...just a different point of view....
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Aug 05, 2007, 01:44 AM
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I agree with Direction...
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Aug 05, 2007, 01:56 AM
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I understand what you are saying here....... for the man that does not want his lady to leave, he will begin to feel like a failure, therefore, place his present sense of unworthiness onto the female and she has now become the enemy in his EYE from that day forward.
.... I have seen this happen before. |
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Aug 05, 2007, 06:29 AM
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my feelings of worthlessness towards my ex disipated the day i divorced her cheating fat *** for adultery, should have done it sooner.
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Aug 05, 2007, 10:26 AM
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Say what you mean mellors
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Aug 05, 2007, 10:29 AM
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I know.. that in the case of very abusive men.. that happens.. and when it does.. it is the most dangerous time that can be... I know.. this from work with T... and from helping.. at battered women's shelters...
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Aug 05, 2007, 10:38 AM
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In that percentage this is true..."the men transfer their sense of worthlessness to the woman, and she becomes the enemy. "
I would agree that there has been some kind of control or abuse already...why else would a man make a women feel worthless if he wasn't trying to control her into staying...
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Aug 06, 2007, 12:19 AM
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Friends,
I didn't share this information as a blanket statement. I had never heard it before, and thought maybe some of you hadn't either. Relationships are complex and each one is unique. Wishing you all a good week -  EJ |
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