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Old Oct 08, 2016, 04:02 AM
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Like idk how to start this but I've had 6 female crushes and 2 males

im so confused
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Old Oct 08, 2016, 04:52 AM
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As in a sexual crush? If yes maybe bi but who knows I don't have enough info
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Old Oct 08, 2016, 04:55 AM
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Maybe? How would we know? If anyone knows, you should know.

You don't have to be either gay or straight, and you don't have to be gay now and never straight.

Apparently, there is a reason to ask this question. So that does mean something. It seems you aren't unequivocally straight.

For me, I would look into who I sexually desire. But that's just me.
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Old Oct 08, 2016, 03:19 PM
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I've never had a female crush, but I do find some women attractive, usually famous women. Occasionally I think a woman I know is attractive, but I don't want to have any romantic or physical contact with them. With women it's more bodies, with men faces first and then bodies. It can be confusing. But I never see women as potential romantic partners.

It sounds like you're bisexual to me but how you can know if you have never tried both men and women several times you can't be 100% sure. Sexuality isn't that simple. Everyone can find people of the same sex and the opposite sex attractive. It doesn't mean that you're gay or straight. I do think you have to experience it with both genders and you might find a preference that way. It might be obvious to you, I don't know. If you're going by the number of crushes by gender you have had you would probably think you're gay, but it isn't necessarily that simple. As someone said, only you can know, we can't feel what you feel so it won't help asking other people.
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Old Oct 10, 2016, 11:42 AM
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You don't have to decide now. Infact some people like boys and girls. But you don't have to label yourself. Love is what you feel for a person not gender. You should explore and see how you feel. I don't like labels but I am attracted to women. When I was younger I liked 2 boys in that entire years of my life but I always felt uncomfortable with the idea of being intimate with men. I could only like them as friends. But it took me a while to admit to myself because I grew up Catholic and I knew my mom would not approve. I only warmed up to the idea when I decided to move out because that was the only way I could be me.
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