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Everyone in my life has betrayed me. My T, friends and family. Everyone. I want to shut them all out. It's a bad situation. What would any of you do?
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I would go travelling to get away from everyone, to far away countries I'd never been to, like India, and then come back with a new perspective, fresh eyes and then see how I feel. Seriously. Travel is great for sorting your **** out.
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Unfortuntelly thsi its a big situation these days as people become more bad day by day i would sugest you to stay strong and to not show them that you are afeected .Sometimes people love to see you unhappy and at the ground .Be happy and smile if you can
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I have been in your shoes as far as everyone turning their backs on me. I tried working through it for months and when I didn't get the love and support I needed, I moved five hours away and started fresh. It was scary. Really scary. But it was the best decision I could have made. I've been here almost 3 years and mostly nothing but good things. I recently suffered a huge loss losing my 15 month old little girl and I'm hoping the best way I know how by going to therapy. But other than that it's been happy times. I don't know if that's the answer for you or not but it worked for me. I've always been told if I want something bad enough I'll find a way to make it happen. I have real friends who I call family, I'm 18 months away from a bachelor degree in nursing.
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Can you give more specifics about how you have been betrayed?
My family has mostly been toxic and abusive to me. I have separated myself from them. I'm happier being away from them than having contact. Seesaw
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Stay away from them as much as you can... they don't deserve you.
![]() ![]() Although, I understand that may be difficult, and it's probably an heartbreaking experience... but please, don't give up ![]() |
#7
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Find new, better friends. Good people are out there. Be good to yourself and to others.
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#8
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If they are really a bad influence for you. Then you probably have to go away from them for a while. Maybe traveling is a good idea to get some space and to try to look at this situation from a third perspective.
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