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Dec 05, 2016, 02:33 PM
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Okay, I hope this is the right place for this
Anyway. I responded to someone's craigslist ad, they were looking for a woman that they could just have a fun, kinky time with by sending sexy texts. He said meeting wasn't a priority, but the more we text, the more insistent he is about meeting me I knew in the back of my mind he'd want to meet, (for sex, no doubt) but I was kind of hoping that it wouldn't get that far. I really enjoy the attention I get from him (which is why I responded in the first place) but now I am feeling awkward, scared and I dont think I enjoy it anymore
Possible trigger:
I dont know what to do, a part of me is scared that if I keep engaging in conversations with him that he'll become more persistent about meeting, he told me that I don't have to be afraid to speak up because he knew I had boundaries and would respect them But I dont know, I am terrible at communication. A part of me just wants to block him and pretend I never knew he existed I guess I am just looking for a way out |
 MickeyCheeky
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#2
Dec 05, 2016, 02:49 PM
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Stop responding to his texts and block his number. This guy is a predator. Please do not respond to any more sex ads (whether it's sexting or actual sex) on Craigslist. This is very dangerous, and I don't want anything to happen to you.
Without saying too much of your history, I know you've been abused in the past. I think you've been "groomed" so to speak to cater to predators like this. You have to be extra careful because of that abuse background. Please block him and do not meet up with him. Seesaw
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#3
Dec 05, 2016, 04:41 PM
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I agree with Seesaw, delete his information and block him. Anyone who would consider unsafe sex is a danger. What ever you do don't meet up with him. Take it from someone who's been there.
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| Angelique67
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#4
Dec 05, 2016, 05:34 PM
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Stop responding immediately. Delete your information. Block his number. Change your number if necessary. He's setting you up to hurt and abuse you.
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#5
Dec 05, 2016, 06:10 PM
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I can't add to the advice, only agree with it.
The rush you're getting from the attention isn't worth what will happen if you continue this. |
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Dec 06, 2016, 02:42 AM
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Dec 08, 2016, 01:25 PM
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Thanks for thee advice everyone
I just wanted to let you all know that I did end up blocking him from my phone Hopefully I wont hear from him anymore |
| Anonymous37954, hvert, Krazee2, shezbut
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| Angelique67, Bill3, ~Christina
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#8
Dec 08, 2016, 01:37 PM
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That's a great move! Never feel bad about looking out for your own needs first. If he decided he didn't want to speak with you again., I am almost positive he would simply remove you from his life without a second thought.
Congratulations on your decision. It was an empowering one. |
| Bill3
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#9
Dec 08, 2016, 01:52 PM
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You are worthy and can get positive attention from a nice guy. You obviously have deep self esteem issues if this creepy crawler appealed to you in the first place. Do you think the only attention you can get and are worthy of getting is from a disgusting Craig's List pervert?
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#10
Dec 08, 2016, 02:03 PM
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You did the right thing!
 He clearly wasn't worth it.. hope you'll find the right one 
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Dec 09, 2016, 02:22 AM
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Anyone who tries to put you in that position is an arrogant piece of s.
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#12
Dec 13, 2016, 10:51 PM
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The fact that he is stating that he would expect unsafe sex from you absolutely makes my hair stand on end. Run for your life like your hair is on fire. Block his number unless you want to end dead in a barrel or something. I beg you to stay off craiglists, it's nothing but predators.
 
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