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Dec 06, 2016, 04:59 AM
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My ex boyfriend decided to breakup with me out of the blue after a 2 year relationship. He has pretty severe anxiety and even admitted depression after the breakup. It came abruptly, 1 day full of "i love you's" and the next "i need to be alone". Ive read oodles online and spoken to many and I know the basics..take care of myself first, make myself happy, move on blah blah blah. It's been 3 months since the breakup and Im still a mess. I was very happy in our relationship and we spoke of more or less extended future plans like children, etc. I love him so much. He refuses to get help/therapy and keeps insisting he needs to go if and when he is ready (and yes, I understand it needs to be when he is ready). I know this isnt him and he has allowed his anxiety to fully consume him. He's sadly not himself anymore. I guess feel free to share similar stories and the outcomes or advice on how to handle this better. I really do want to give him the time to work on himself but it kills me every minute that we're apart. My main question for this post is: has anyone experienced this and had a successful relationship after it all? I cant seem to find much success stories after these kind of break ups online.
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Dec 06, 2016, 10:44 AM
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How much contact have you had with him since the breskup?
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Dec 06, 2016, 03:19 PM
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Hello EmmyElle79: I'm sorry I cannot comment with regard to your concern.
 But I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks!  I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.  PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become.  Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting! 
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Dec 06, 2016, 08:15 PM
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more than I should but am better in recent month or so.. maybe once or twice a week via text. every 2-3 weeks in person when I come by his place to pick up mail |
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