[ABC1357]

I want my ex to give up the relationship. I want to end relationship, but he is not over yet. It's been nearly three years since I asked him to break up, started ignoring his emails, and blocked him from everywhere, but he keeps blaming me that I hurt him and I should give him another chance.... Isn't that enough reason to break up that I don't like him at all, I feel uncomfortable with him? I don't get why he sticks to me so much knowing I don't like him at all. I got too scared when he contacted me that made me even severely suicidal. I had to contact suicide hotline... I'm considering to file police report for harassment, but what else can I do to make him give up the relationship?

[Erebos]

I am confused why are you calling it a relationship, when it hasn't been for three years. Are you sure he has understood the relationship was over.
Not wanting to be with him Is absolutely is enough of a reason. It may help him if he knew why but that would involve engaging him in conversation, and he might try and talk you in circles.
Block him from everything.
Ask your friends to ensure they don't pass on your details.
Also see with work.
Review the stalking laws in your state.See if anything applies.
Apply for a restraining order.
Can you speak to his friends or family and express concern for his very unhealthy behaviour. Maybe they can reach him.
Really hope you find a solution soon,it seems a very long time for someone to still be confused about the status of their relationship.

What happened in the relationship?
Why did you break up?
How did you attempt to explain that the relationship is over before blocking him?

[ABC1357]

I used the term relationship just because I did not have right vocabulary. He tried to control my life too much, and I get tired of it. I expressly told him I wanted to break up with him, and explained why I wanted to break up. He keep saying I misunderstand him, but the truth is I don't like him or even feel scared. It's not misunderstanding. It's my feeling. He told me he won't bother me again years ago, but he did contact me again..... I'm really scared.

[divine1966]

You don't need his permission to end a relationship. How is he contactung you if he is blocked?

[ABC1357]

I found one email address I did not block, because I was not aware he knew that address. He has even contacted to my family, or contacted through his friend in past.

[winter4me]

Do not respond. If an email/other slips through, do not read it.
If he is stalking you, get a restraining order. Make sure friends and family know you do not want to hear about/from him. Why are you reacting with urge to self-harm? Why haven't you let go of the "relationship" and moved on? Hope you have a t. and can talk honestly with them.