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#1
Dec 22, 2016, 09:54 PM
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My marriage is over and I accept that. It's the best thing for me and I'll deal with it. One thing I don't understand is how when confronted with undeniable proof my husband can lie to my face. I've got the email he sent with the picture of him he sent to the woman he was talking to on the dating site. Yet still he didn't do it. Who was it? The bloody fairies? Im more angry about this deceit than anything else I think because he surely can't think I'm so stupid. What is this behaviour???
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 Anonymous45023, Crazy Hitch, LadyShadow, LookingforCalm, Lost_in_the_woods, MickeyCheeky, Misssy2, TishaBuv, xenko
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#2
Dec 22, 2016, 10:14 PM
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Yes, there are liars who can look you right in the eye and lie to you even when caught red handed. Is it about a certain element of narcissism?
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#3
Dec 22, 2016, 10:22 PM
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I don't what it is but it's quite scary. I remembering confronting him and couldn't sleep. I was downstairs in absolute tears and he came into the room walked on through and made a drink then stood in the dark kitchen. 'I didnt want to bother you'. Wow. I really don't know this man at all.
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Dec 22, 2016, 10:32 PM
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OH MY GOODNESS, were u married to my ex?
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Dec 22, 2016, 10:45 PM
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Behind my ex husband's smile lay the most evil of all creatures who could look at me with a dead pan serious face and deny his affair(s).
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Dec 22, 2016, 10:54 PM
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Thanks you made me smile there!!!!! I'm on one hell of a rollercoaster at the moment and I guess there is no point trying to make sense of him when I need to spend the effort on me. His dramatics are too much - maybe I should just laugh instead of getting upset.
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Dec 23, 2016, 02:24 AM
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#8
Dec 23, 2016, 09:13 AM
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Once you know someone is just a liar, they have no more power over you.
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| xenko
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#9
Dec 23, 2016, 09:46 AM
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Yes people do lie like that
 you're on the right track focusing on yourself. Trying figure him out is a waste of your precious time b
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 Eat a live frog for breakfast every morning and nothing worse can happen to you that day! "Ask yourself whether the dream of heaven and greatness should be left waiting for us in our graves - or whether it should be ours here and now and on this earth.” Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged Bipolar type 2 rapid cycling DX 2013 - Seroquel 100 Celexa 20 mg Xanax .5 mg prn Modafanil 100 mg 
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#10
Dec 23, 2016, 09:46 AM
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joloto...power to you.
And I know you were angry when you typed the post..because of the deciet which amazes me as well....so I laughed..even thou it is not funny. Keep moving on lady. |
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Dec 24, 2016, 03:28 AM
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Hilariously he now wants us to both write a list of things that annoy us about each other to try get our marriage on track. Not sure where my doesn't cook perfectly sits with his being a pathological lying cheat but it should be interesting!!!
 youre flogging a dead horse hubby......
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Dec 24, 2016, 06:27 AM
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So..how will Christmas be handled? It has to be hard to be in this situation on a special holiday.
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Dec 27, 2016, 12:17 AM
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Made even more difficult as on Christmas Eve we were in a car accident when I lost control of the car in high winds. Thankfully both ok just a couple of bruises and I have my husband to thank for that as he grabbed hold of me to stop me moving anywhere. Christmas has been very very quiet with no mention of anything. I suffer from anxiety anyway so this hasn't helped though I'm happy to say I seem to be dealing with it ok even got in a car yesterday and drove 120 miles to see my sister. One thing I can take from the accident is I'm stronger than I thought. The other issue hasn't been forgotten though. Just parked. X
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Dec 27, 2016, 12:30 AM
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It hurts so bad when you're lied to yet you know the absolute truth 100%. So frustrating. What do you see your future with him looking like? Are you going to work it out?
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| xenko
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#15
Dec 27, 2016, 12:45 AM
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#16
Dec 27, 2016, 04:06 AM
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One word...Ok two:
Dating psychos.com Check it out. |
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#17
Dec 27, 2016, 04:58 AM
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 I think my energy can be directed somewhere a little less odd!
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Dec 27, 2016, 07:47 AM
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Haha actually looked this bored last night. People will make a dating sight out of anything these days lol |
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Jan 08, 2017, 12:25 AM
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Update and having bottomed out emotionally after the accident I am starting to feel slightly better. I am in a limbo with my husband as I need to get myself sorted first before I can start thinking about him I've cancelled the couples counselling and am having my own. I can't believe his 'I'll do anything to make this right I love you so much' lines. That should have happened last year or he should have left if he was that unhappy. Maybe I was in a different relationship!
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