[dunnowhoiam82]

Been a while since i posted situation has not changed i am still with my lovely wife but secretly so the kids do not know. This is all so hard wondering what will happen in court for my charges and what will happen in my future with my wife. I understand why it is being kept a secret (her daughter is victim) But i mean does it not make more sense to tell the daughter she chose to stay with me then to keep it from her till later?

I mean later she may be more angry because her mother lied to her all that time and it is super hard having to sneak around with the woman i married. I get i do not deserve my wife or anyone for that matter but she has chosen to stay should she not inform the daughter/victim?

Also when i go to jail im not sure what will be left for me when i get back or weather or not she will be with someone else. I trust she wont cheat but if i am not around to be here for her then what? UGH just dunno.

[Zedsdead]

Originally Posted by dunnowhoiam82

Been a while since i posted situation has not changed i am still with my lovely wife but secretly so the kids do not know. This is all so hard wondering what will happen in court for my charges and what will happen in my future with my wife. I understand why it is being kept a secret (her daughter is victim) But i mean does it not make more sense to tell the daughter she chose to stay with me then to keep it from her till later?

I mean later she may be more angry because her mother lied to her all that time and it is super hard having to sneak around with the woman i married. I get i do not deserve my wife or anyone for that matter but she has chosen to stay should she not inform the daughter/victim?

Also when i go to jail im not sure what will be left for me when i get back or weather or not she will be with someone else. I trust she wont cheat but if i am not around to be here for her then what? UGH just dunno.

It's really hard to give you any advice when you refuse to give details. It kind of matters to be able to give the correct input.

[~Christina]

I'm confused !?!?!??

What is this ( her daughter is victim) victim of what ? Did you do something to her?

As mentioned it's hard to offer advice with such little info.

Care to share more ?