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I am currently going through a rough patch with my husband. Since he retired in February there has been a rapid increase in his use of double standards. He will defend everyone except me even of they have just done the same action that I have been berated for. When I try to discuss an issue with him, he is more than happy to give his opinion but immediately becomes angry and defensive when it is my turn to give my opinion. He is intolerant of any perspectives except his. We had a huge fight over this but i never got to give my side of the story.
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I don't know if there is much I can offer with regard to this.
![]() ![]() Interpersonal dynamics within a marriage certainly do change following retirement. Plus I think it can be particularly hard on men's egos. Our next door neighbors are also retired. But both of them do a lot of separate volunteer work. So they don't spend near as much time together as my wife & I do. They may be better off for it. I don't know ![]() I see this is your first post here on PC. So... ![]() ![]() ![]() PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. ![]() ![]() |
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Some people only see in black and white and think it's their way or the highway.
I'm taking it you've put up with this for quite some time. Not sure what to suggest but just wanted to say hang in there ![]() |
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