[nickel19]

I have been in a relationship for about 15 years with same guy. I was married before and have 4 kids in that marriage. My children have lived with there father and have only had visits with me in past. Recently my 16 year old daughter has come to live now with me.
And things seem just not right with me and my boyfriend, he has no kids of his own.
She stayed home one Sunday from church with him and since things just dont seem the same. My daughter is always asking him to take her for "walks" especially at night, or Ive woken up in middle of night to find them sitting outside together. I have freaked out on both of them, i have voiced my feelings on the inapropriated time They spend together. I have screamed,yelled, that I do not want him taking her for walks etc. But still am fighting constantly about the situation. I have explained my feelings, and still to no avail. What should I do!?

[TishaBuv]

Hello and welcome to PC!

It sounds like you have suspicions there is something sexual/romantic going on between them. Your suspicions may be correct, IDK.

Your bf is more guilty than your minor daughter. He is an adult and she is a child. This is a serious issue.

You need to protect your minor child from him. He is a predator.

I think if I were you, I'd ask the bf to move out and get him away from my daughter. The minor child comes before the predator adult.