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Apr 29, 2017, 04:39 PM
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Why is it that whenever I find a guy that's interested in me, I'm just don't feel anything in return? It's like, I'm all "meh" about the whole thing and can't get myself to feel anything toward him.
I do have moments where I feel excited about guys, but these guys never even give me the time of day. It's like something just doesn't add up. I'm not selecting guys based on looks or anything. It's not like I'm trying to hit up Brad Pitt look a likes or anything. I'm attracted to many a guy that should be within my league. It's just the guys I am attracted to aren't attracted at all to me. It's impossible!!! 
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Apr 29, 2017, 06:58 PM
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Okay, so this guy caught my eye and I was looking at his dating profile and he said he wanted a girl exactly like me, down to my body type, hair and eye color. So, I send him a wink. No pressure, right?
He's basically ignored me. It isn't me, right? Something is definitely up. There is something happening that prevents guys from wanting to connect with me. A conspiracy I tells ya! Something or someone is out there cursing me to be alone for ever! 
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Apr 29, 2017, 08:23 PM
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....and now the curse is making it so that no one wants to respond...
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Apr 29, 2017, 08:32 PM
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Yeah, I can see how that's frustrating for you. I often think of how nice it would be to have a girlfriend, but I never make any moves.
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Apr 30, 2017, 12:55 AM
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Thanks Vernon. I just don't get it. I must be repulsive to guys somehow I guess.
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Apr 30, 2017, 08:50 AM
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 I know how it feels. I tried using Zoosk once with no luck. |
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Apr 30, 2017, 09:07 AM
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I'm sorry
 I'm sure you're not repulsive at all. Perhaps you just have to keep trying 
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Apr 30, 2017, 10:55 AM
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Sometimes it simply doesn't have anything to do with you Artchic and that the guy gets easily intimidated and doesn't know how to respond back.
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Apr 30, 2017, 07:27 PM
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Not sure how your system works in the US, but back here, on eHarmony, a guys profile can stay active for 6-12 months depending on how long the subscription was taking out for. If, during that time, someone finds a gf, the account is still open for viewing, per say and only shuts down after the subscription period?
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Apr 30, 2017, 07:37 PM
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Oddly enough, and you may well be aware of this, if you're an attractive woman, guys might just find you intimidating, just because you're pretty. I know there are plenty of guys who's goal is only to find a very attractive woman, but many "normal" guys are very intimidated by a very attractive woman. If you have what you consider a "really good" photo of yourself on there as the one a guy would see when he gets a "nudge" from you (I don't know what else to call it besides a nudge... haha), he may take one look, and think to himself, 'she's outta my league'! I'm no expert, but you might want to replace your main photo with one that you feel is a little "less becoming" of you? Just a thought
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May 01, 2017, 09:36 AM
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Don't give up. Your Prince Charming might be just around the corner. I know it must be discouraging but hang in there.
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#12
May 01, 2017, 11:45 AM
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This sounds like the story of my earlier life, before I got married (to my total and utter amazement). Hugs. It sucks.
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