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May 02, 2017, 01:06 PM
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So a guy caught my eye on a dating site and I sent him a wink, then favorited him so I could easily find him again. Now he's looked at my profile, but hasn't sent anything in return. Would it be too much to send him a message? There's just something about him that intrigues me.
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May 02, 2017, 01:11 PM
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I think you should go for it.
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May 02, 2017, 01:13 PM
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As long as you don't look too needy, I think you should be fine.
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May 02, 2017, 02:13 PM
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Good luck!!!
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May 02, 2017, 02:28 PM
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A guy asked me for a picture of cleavage yesterday. Thats the type of people who ghosting was invented for. What am i gonna say - hey, bud, if i had any cleavage, a, i wouldnt be on here looking for a date, and 2, i sure wouldnt send you a picture of it!
Hope you have better luck than me! 
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May 02, 2017, 05:11 PM
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Good luck ArtChic!
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May 03, 2017, 01:25 AM
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#9
May 03, 2017, 07:50 AM
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You can write to him of course but I think if he looked at your profile and dung contact you, it's very unlikely that he is interested. Imho
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May 03, 2017, 09:50 AM
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Tbh I agree with divine. I know from personal experience, if there were someone that winked at me on any dating site that intrigued me or interested me I'd definitely contact them.
I don't think it's necessarily cut and dry, so I'm sure it's ok to message the guy but I think there is a good chance he would have returned the wink or contacted you if interested. |
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#11
May 03, 2017, 12:05 PM
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Tisha, please, I can't unsee that!!!! My happy place just died. Pass the brain bleach.
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May 03, 2017, 04:12 PM
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May 03, 2017, 07:11 PM
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 That'll teach him
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May 03, 2017, 07:22 PM
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Did it work ArtChic?
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May 03, 2017, 09:15 PM
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May 04, 2017, 06:23 AM
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You'd have better results getting out IRL. What about volunteering for Habitats for Humanity? You'll meet caring, able bodied guys building houses. It won't be this one second swipe thing. There will be more time to get to know people.
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#17
May 04, 2017, 06:58 AM
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I'd take focus off guys and on improving my own life. I think then more and nicer men might get interested.
Full time job? Take a class? Get some type of training? Even if online? Take drivers ed? If you have a disability you can free drivers ed and ton of free/inexpensive training through vocational rehab. Join meetups? Walking and exercise meetups are usually Co-ed. Etc I think all of it would improve your life and then open more options for meeting nice guys. |
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