BF extremely selfish or is it me?

Hey there. So I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. Things were so amazing at 1st. Now everything seems to be about him. If he isn't having a good day we don't go out. If we argue he always tries to spin it on me. Like today is my birthday and he has been totally mean. His excuse is he did alot for me yesterday and I don't understand. Really?! Any thoughts? I am a hand full and do have an anger issue so I know I'm not perfect by any mean. Thanks!

Were there any cases where you were unable to meet up?
If so, what where his reactions?
What did he do for you the day before you birthday?

And by the way, welcome to the forum.

Hello Floridagurl8891, welcome to PC! I hope you find your time here to be of benefit.

Once the Honeymoon phase is over 6 months or so things change, Do you have a deeper emotional attachment outside of the problems? odd question but I hope you understand what I am saying.

Sounds like you both need to sit down and have a honest conversation about each others actions/moods in as calm a way as possible.

Welcome to PC

I would need more information in order to say. True, he could have acted better on your birthday. When he says he did a lot for you the day before what does that entail? Did he mean that to be part of your birthday present/celebration? I'm sorry he was mean to you on your special day. Since you've been dating a year, I think it would be a good idea to have a candid discussion with him about the things you've said here. Just tell him your concerns in a non-blaming way. Good luck!!!