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Old May 19, 2017, 11:29 AM
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Why do guys think it's okay to be rude. Theres this guy i like and he is always yelling rude things to me form across the hall way so all of his friends can hear. He mutters stuff under his breath about me when he walks past. We used to be good friend and now I feel like he hates me.He talks to one of my best friends about me, and it's not nice things he says. Oh and he just asked out my best friend.
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Old May 19, 2017, 11:50 AM
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Sounds like your rude friend has problems that you can't or shouldn't try to fix. I'm sorry this is happening to you and I think that a new friend might solve some of the problem. Not all guys are rude. Only the insecure ones are.
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Old May 19, 2017, 11:54 AM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. It must be very painful. I don't understand why people have to be jerks sometimes. Is it possible for you to talk with him to see why he is behaving this way? Best wishes....

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Old May 19, 2017, 12:05 PM
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This individual sounds like he has maturity issues and you should do yourself a favor and set your sights elsewhere... You deserve much better treatment than that from someone who is interacting with you... Seriously...
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Old May 19, 2017, 12:10 PM
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Sorry about that. Have you tried to talk with him abou this?
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Old May 19, 2017, 12:30 PM
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Sounds like your rude friend has problems that you can't or shouldn't try to fix. I'm sorry this is happening to you and I think that a new friend might solve some of the problem. Not all guys are rude. Only the insecure ones are.
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Old May 19, 2017, 12:36 PM
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Old May 19, 2017, 04:43 PM
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Well, it's not a "guy" thing ... it's just this arrogant jerk you've come across who doesn't warrant a second of your time.
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Old May 19, 2017, 05:08 PM
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It isnt a guy thing .. Its a shytty human being actions.

I imagine it might help if your friend tries to stop him from treating you this way.
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