[BlueJeans00]

I feel my own mother is trying to steal my identity.
Im in my early 20's and lost my job due to discrimination.
I live at home and well I went down hill when I lost the job. There were other factors such as I worked at the same job as my mum and she was more concerned how I reflected how she looked at work. For example I did acting one stage and was doing a short film and my mum made me go on the day I was filming which was a Sunday.For 2 hours and then come back to the short film afterwards. It was just shelving putting books away on a shelf in the library,on a QUIET Sunday! Even the staff wonder.why I didn't take the time off.
Once I was forced to do 4, 5 hours of shelving because we were short staff. No one.else would take it and my mother forced me too. I tell you there is a reason why health and safety keep it too 2 hours of shelving.

Anyway
I been going to therapy for a while now and finding myself again.
I been doing mindfulness and well I recalled telling my mother about it and she thought it was some spirits talking to me and she brain washed my sister and that it some.demons talking to me.
Real dark ages, rubbish. Recently she told me how she found a free online course to do mindfulness. I didn't like the idea. Because my mother is manipulative.
Soon she claim she know everything about it and my therapist knows nonthing.
I've stopped telling her about my theapry sessions too.
Sometimes I feel guitly that if I didn't tell her everything Im bad. Or Im a fake. Though she never demanded me as a child to tell her everything. Not from what I can remember. She was always dismissive.
Then she started to get water colour books out and thought to buy water colour brushes. When I do water colour painting.
My sister brought a jacket thats my style which isn't her style.

She makes my dad who they broke up when I was seven, whenever he comes over. She makes him do jobs. Such as giving him.money to go to supermarket or if he going to see his girlfriend, she ask come over and hang the towels out before going to see his girlfriend.

This woman is manipulative and emotional abusive..
She call me names such as b**tch lazy,pig,ungrateful child,difficult child, etc.

She put you down in any conversation you have with her and if you get upset what she says "apparently you being over sensitive"
In the past she would throw chairs when I was.little. Not towards me or at me. But out of anger. It wouldn't happened all the time.

I feel they are stealing my identity. Kinda freaking me out.
Help!

[Crazy Hitch]

I don't think anyone's able to steal your identity. You are your own unique individual.

If your mother wants to act as a know it all; just think silently in your mind "yes mother dear" but don't entertain a discussion on it.

You don't need to tell your mother everything. Or anything, for that matter. You're an adult.

When the time is right, hopefully you will find a new job and be able to move out of home.

[Sunflower123]

I second that. I don't think your mother is trying to steal your identity. It sounds like she is the difficult one and a little insensitive as well. The previous post had good advice. If you have to live with your mom try ignoring or overlooking her abrasive behavior. Best wishes....