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#1
May 26, 2017, 10:01 AM
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Bit of a random thread but here goes...
My boyfriend is in his thirty's, he lives at home, he has hangs out with his parents ALL THE TIME. he plays videogames all night long and he is obsessed with Disney. Like, hanging out at Disneyland. Is this ok? |
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May 26, 2017, 10:34 AM
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It's ok if it's ok to YOU.
Is it bothering you? If it is then talk to him about it
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#3
May 26, 2017, 10:39 AM
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Yes, his interests might differ from the norm, but is that really a bad thing? I think not.
As long as he isn't doing something that hurts another person or directly infringes on their liberties than I see absolutely nothing wrong with what he enjoys and it's rather unfair to judge him for it. Just my 2c as a 25 year old video game, tech, and anime geek 
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May 26, 2017, 12:26 PM
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The only part I'm questioning is hanging out with his parents ALL THE TIME... Are they old, frail, and have 1 foot in the grave, or doesn't he have any friends?
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May 26, 2017, 12:49 PM
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Uummm ok, I see u are in the UK, is he is in CA? You mentioned that he hangs out in Disneyland so this is what I am assuming.
Is this someone u have met online? how long have u known him? Reason I am asking you these questions is because if u aren't together it will make a big difference as to when u are I assume. He probably has taken up these hobbies because he is single and feels like there is nothing better to do. Idk. |
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#6
May 26, 2017, 12:57 PM
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no man is an island, except for me!!!! I am so lonely even though i have a husband that works 9 hours a day and a son who doesn't listen to a word i say. I am planning on getting my Bachelors in September with 4 classes needed. wish me luck!!!
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May 26, 2017, 01:07 PM
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If it bothers you, I think you should talk with him about this..
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May 26, 2017, 02:36 PM
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I don't think there is anything necessarily "wrong" with this (aside from perhaps spending tons of time with his parents, which could be unhealthy) but if his lifestyle doesn't go together with your lifestyle then it may be something to look at. Perhaps you two just aren't compatible, it's worth talking to him about it.
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May 26, 2017, 03:16 PM
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May 26, 2017, 03:17 PM
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May 26, 2017, 06:05 PM
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I wouldn't date a man who plays video games all night because when does he sleep and how can he maintain a job if he is up all night? Does this guy work?
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May 26, 2017, 07:45 PM
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May 27, 2017, 02:26 PM
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Happy is this the same guy you wrote about a few months back? The one who was abusive?
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May 27, 2017, 07:10 PM
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Him playing video games is the least of troubles here. He threw you down stairs? Left you black and blue? Out of 7 meetings he beat you up on 3 occasions? Why do you worry about him playing video games? Are you safe? Please think of your safety
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May 28, 2017, 12:53 AM
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I really hope its a different guy. |
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May 28, 2017, 10:06 AM
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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