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Jun 21, 2017, 08:39 AM
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The other day, someone I barely know made a comment that is rather odd. I know her because she works at the local library... I haven't seen her in a while, and then she came to see me because she wanted me to do some work for her.
Because she came to see me, we had a few short conversations. In one of those conversations, she said, "With hours like that, I thought you must have an appointment." I didn't respond. I have regular hours, but I do come in 2 hours later one day a week (that is the day I see my counselor). Why would someone bring this up?
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My business is to teach my aspirations to conform themselves to fact, not to try and make facts harmonise with my aspirations. T.H. Huxley Last edited by shakespeare47; Jun 21, 2017 at 09:04 AM. |
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Jun 21, 2017, 08:46 AM
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She's wondering what IS it that you are doing? (My H teases me about being a "curious woman"
 ) If you don't want her to know then it is perfectly OK not to respond. Just let her squirm. Some people are gossips. I'm not saying she is but IF she is then, soon, others would know you are in counseling too.
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Jun 21, 2017, 09:05 AM
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The few times we spoke about the job I did... she did make other comments that could be interpreted as being about gossip. And I just let her talk...
I have to admit that I have no control over what comments people might make. And I have no control over the existence of gossip.
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My business is to teach my aspirations to conform themselves to fact, not to try and make facts harmonise with my aspirations. T.H. Huxley Last edited by shakespeare47; Jun 21, 2017 at 09:29 AM. |
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Jun 21, 2017, 03:00 PM
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Haters gonna hate.
Just do your thing and try not to let the naysayers get to you. |
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Jun 22, 2017, 05:46 AM
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I do sometimes amuse myself by thinking, "the only reason you are making those insinuations, is because you don't know the half of what I've actually done and said (that I feel ashamed of and/or feel guilty about)."
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My business is to teach my aspirations to conform themselves to fact, not to try and make facts harmonise with my aspirations. T.H. Huxley Last edited by shakespeare47; Jun 22, 2017 at 08:56 AM. |
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Jun 22, 2017, 08:39 AM
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Listen to the track by Eminem and Xzibit "Don't approach me".
"you don't know what I will or what I won't do". |
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