Relationship?

There is a relative who talked about marriage topic to know when i have idea to marry.I told him that there are few modest women somewhere that doesn't want children and i have seen some online profiles like that.He said, look they may have mentioned like that but after marriage they will demand something which you didn't thought about, ofcourse especially that involves children.I kept quiet and didn't replied to him.

I guess it's easy to marry a western women because there are some of them that really doesn't want children. I know they are very much confident about it. Whereas i wondered if its possible to be in a relationship with an indian or arabian women that legitimately doesn't want children.Possibly there could be few of them somewhere.I have moved to some gulf country to work.

I think it's difficult to ensure safety and fulfil a kids happiness in the modern world. Parents can pass anxiety and depression on to their children.I suffered from anxiety for a longtime and i don't prefer to pass that to my kids. Eventhough i don't want to have the responsibility to take care of kids.I feel like i will lose the little happiness which i always have and that is freedom.I do want to be in a relationship but i don't want children and aeroplane load of relatives from my gf side since i can't engage in casual conversations with many people.Well, either i should be in a relationship of my choice or i should have the chance to visit 1 or 2 countries. Who knows if iam going to experience any of that or die in half of my journey.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

Hi Sameer6
I understand your fears about passing mental illness to children. There are women out there who don't want children or are done having children. I don't know what the statistics are but there is a chance children will born and raised healthy by parents with mental illness.
I also understand that being in a relations means dealing with your partners family. I'm shy even with my own family. When the time is right the perfect person will come.

I congratulate you for being willing to stand up for what you want...mainly no kids when that's one thing society pushes on us. I hope when you're ready, you find someone who shares your views. Best wishes.

I respect your views, hope you'll be able to find a women that agrees with you on this.

Thank you all.I'm a confused person with a confused life.I don't know, this forum is something special.