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Old Jul 14, 2017, 08:10 AM
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What should I do?
I think my boy friend cheat on me.But I don't have evidence.
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Old Jul 14, 2017, 08:26 AM
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Typically in my humble opinion, suspicion begins when there becomes an underlying sense of disconnect. Some emotional need is going unmet. Which is an appropriate beginning to a serious discussion. It leaves out suspicion and accusation when those emotional needs are addressed. Then go from there.
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Old Jul 14, 2017, 09:34 PM
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I hear you when you say you don't have "evidence". People are pretty good at covering their tracks.

I long suspected that my ex husband was having an affair. There were lots of red flags - but no evidence, per say. And my gut feelings for a year / two years proved itself right. I always say trust your gut.

But it entirely depends on what red flags you are picking up? What makes you think that he has cheated? Sometimes there are plausible explanations to the strangest things.
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Old Jul 15, 2017, 03:30 AM
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May I ask what things your husband is doing that makes you suspicious, are these things he didn't used to do?
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Old Jul 15, 2017, 06:40 AM
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I agree with Erebos. What are some of the things making you suspect him of having an affair?
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Old Jul 15, 2017, 08:12 AM
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hard to say from your short opening statement.

If you seriously believe this my own inkling is to confront him. I wasted years of my life pretending as though it wasn't happening.
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