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I find myself sociable and extravert. Indeed, I have only few friends, when we gather and talk, most of the time I am talking and they are listening. When I finish talking we can sit in the park in silence for hours. I think my friends are introvert, but I don't think that I am introvert, because I like to talk and discuss things. With other people I am quick to argue and they don't like to talk with me. At school I also didn't have much friends, my schoolmates found me boring. But I did't want to talk with them because young people like noisy parties, talk about sex, boys etc, and I didn't like it, I didn't want to talk about my boyfriend and sex, I didn't like to go with them to disco, and they often told me that I'm boring. Maybe because I can't stand noisy parties I can't find many friends. If there are more than 3 persons talking I have a headache. But despite that I always want to have new friends and I found that I have another problem with communication. The problem is that I don't know how to communicate with new people, strangers. For example, I've registered on many social media sites and I don't understand how to talk with people. My chats with people are all the same: "Hello. -Hello. - How are you? - I'm fine. -And you? - I'm fine too. - What are you doing? -listening to music. -Ok." Chat ends. Maybe most of people have the same situation in chats? Please tell me. Tell me what is wrong with me?
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![]() MickeyCheeky, Sunflower123
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#2
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Nie ma z tobą nic złego. Kiedy rozmawiam, zadaję pytania o drugą osobę, aby rozpocząć rozmowę. Nie znam polskiego ... po prostu przetłumaczyłem!
Lubię ten polski wokalista, chociaż: |
#3
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Hello. Welcome to PC.
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I can relate a lot to what you're saying..
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#5
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How about "what are you listening to?"
That's a good way to open a topic of discussion around music, exchanging personal favorites and that opens doors to other topics of mutual or individual tastes and interests... The chat doesn't have to end at "ok"... |
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I just feel that I don't know what to talk about after talk about hobbies. It's like I lose interest in a person. Especially when I talk through Internet. I don't know who I am talking with. I always think that he could be a maniac or ill. maybe that's not good. But I am wondering how people talk through Internet, even find wives/husbands. How they talk so that they fall in love with unknown strangers?..
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