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Old Oct 10, 2017, 06:40 AM
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I don't know why I don't anymore. Nothing happened to me that can cause it. The last time I felt a crush was in 2009. Now there are just no feelings of that sort anymore. I just want to understand it
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Old Oct 10, 2017, 01:24 PM
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Nothing wrong, you probably just haven't found someone who's worth it.
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Old Oct 10, 2017, 01:39 PM
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Hmmm. I don't know why this would happen. Maybe you just haven't met anyone that interests you. Are you otherwise ok? Depressed or anything like that?
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Old Oct 11, 2017, 04:58 AM
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It seems ok to me. It’s probably just like the previous posters mentioned. You just haven’t found anyone interesting unless like Shazerac said about you being depressed. If you find you’ve lost pleasure or interest in other things, please get it checked out.
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 03:42 AM
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Hmmm. I don't know why this would happen. Maybe you just haven't met anyone that interests you. Are you otherwise ok? Depressed or anything like that?
I have Depression, but still got that crush after I was diagnosed. And other things too went away long after I was diagnosed. The times I kissed a guy I felt nothing. I show reactions like I like a guy, but there isn't that crush feeling or whatever there
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 06:28 AM
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I have Depression, but still got that crush after I was diagnosed. And other things too went away long after I was diagnosed. The times I kissed a guy I felt nothing. I show reactions like I like a guy, but there isn't that crush feeling or whatever there
You aren't going to have "chemistry" with all the guys you date. This means you need to see other guys too. Also, if you are taking psych drugs, many numb your emotions and sexual responsiveness. If you are taking something--read a lot of reviews, youtube videos and the official information about possible side effects from the drug.
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Old Oct 12, 2017, 09:12 AM
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Are you supposed to get feelings for guys? Which guy should you have gotten feelings for but didn't?

Maybe there just hasn't been a guy in your life that has the traits or the relationship with you that would make you feel those things.
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Old Oct 14, 2017, 03:25 PM
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When you and him meet , you will get a feeling that is positive , You two have just not met yet.

Crush and love takes time to find.
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Old Oct 14, 2017, 03:33 PM
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Nothing wrong, you probably just haven't found someone who's worth it.
Don't worry there is nothing wrong. I am the same. I suspect that as you age boys / men become a little more jaded, a little more selfish, a little less attractive so it is really hard to find someone to care at all about. I also feel they get a little bit more reserved so you don't see all those traits you might have crushed on before.

I am trending downward age wise lately. But even there I find a younger guy I could get a crush on but I am kind of put off by the fact that he is so young.

There just aren't a lot of good stock lately.
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