[boogiesmash]

Where do you go in your mid thirties to find love? I’m a male and have been lonely for years. Most of my thirties since my depression.

I am not sure if this is the appropriate forum section for this, but you can meet people in many places. Some are obvious like speed dating, dating websites, bars, etc. You could volunteer somewhere, meet a potential partner at work, church if you're into that thing. I actually met my current partner on this very website. Sometimes you can find love in expected places, or the unexpected. You do have to get out there and try though.

[Carmina]

Originally Posted by scaredandconfused

You do have to get out there and try though.

That's the problem

Too scary - I can face people in everyday life and activities even like walking groups but the idea of actually attempting to 'chat up' someone seems unachievable (and tbh I think part of the problem is I detest the way men tend to behave with women, especially dating)

Even in the relationships I have had they were all initiated by women.