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Old Feb 21, 2017, 06:27 PM
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so there's this girl and last monday I* was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me & smiling. Then on friday i heard her saying ” i don’t know why he looks at me.

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Old Feb 22, 2017, 04:42 AM
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Maybe she's self conscious and has noticed your eyes looking at her and can't fathom why you'd be interested.

Or she's caught your eye looking too much and finds it creepy.
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Old Feb 22, 2017, 03:08 PM
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Alex, really hon, you need to talk to these girls/girl.
Thing is, when your crushing on someone, all these little looks and glances mean something. But if your not crushing on someone they don't even make your radar.

If this is the same girl from your other post, just say hi as you pass by.

If she is saying to her friend that she doesn't know why your looking at her, then she probably isn't thinking what your thinking.

That doesn't mean you can't say hi.
However stop hovering close enough to eaves drop on her conversations....this is not cool.

Good luck.
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Old Feb 22, 2017, 04:30 PM
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no one can say for sure what her actions mean except her. Everyone can speculate til the cows come home but none of these analyses will likely be accurate.

Now on the surface her looking at you in the manner that you said, does not speak to what someone else said as thinking you're creepy. I don't think she'd be looking at you in that casual and somewhat friendly way if she thought that. But one cannot say for sure if she's interested or not.

Say hi when you have a chance. nothing will tell you more than if you try to interact with her. no risk in that as you're not asking her out, but you can gain some insight by seeing how she responds!
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Old Oct 02, 2017, 04:45 PM
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Alex, really hon, you need to talk to these girls/girl.
Thing is, when your crushing on someone, all these little looks and glances mean something. But if your not crushing on someone they don't even make your radar.

If this is the same girl from your other post, just say hi as you pass by.

If she is saying to her friend that she doesn't know why your looking at her, then she probably isn't thinking what your thinking.

That doesn't mean you can't say hi.
However stop hovering close enough to eaves drop on her conversations....this is not cool.

Good luck.
but i dont know last week when i was at the mall with my friends i turn around and i see a guy looking at me but then he looked away. so im not sure if it was her or not but i guess she saw me and said something so maybe thats why he was looking at me but i only saw the i didnt see her so idk
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Old Oct 03, 2017, 08:19 AM
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Do you like her?
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Old Oct 03, 2017, 01:35 PM
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Do you like her?

yeah but i haven't seen this girl ever since high school so idk if that guy who was looking at me and looked away the other day at the mall was her boyfriend and her and maybe the reason why he was looking at me was because she was talking about me or idk but i only saw a guy there and not her...so im not sure
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 05:37 AM
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Then on friday i heard her saying ” i don’t know why he looks at me.
She's probably creeped out if she's questioning why you're looking at her. She may have been smiling back out of politeness. Only way to know is to gut up and start a conversation.
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Old Nov 19, 2017, 11:37 PM
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She's probably creeped out if she's questioning why you're looking at her. She may have been smiling back out of politeness. Only way to know is to gut up and start a conversation.
yeah but now that i finish school i havent seen her ever since high school but the other day when i went out with my friends at the mall i turn around & saw a guy looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was there & saw me & said something so maybe thats why he was looking at me. but idk i only saw a guy there & not her so i guess she hide behind him or something. soo im guessing she didnt want me to see her so maybe thats why she hide behind him.
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Old Nov 20, 2017, 01:17 AM
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yeah but now that i finish school i havent seen her ever since high school but the other day when i went out with my friends at the mall i turn around & saw a guy looking at me but then looked away. so i guess she was there & saw me & said something so maybe thats why he was looking at me. but idk i only saw a guy there & not her so i guess she hide behind him or something. soo im guessing she didnt want me to see her so maybe thats why she hide behind him.
Was this guy a friend of hers or just some random guy at the mall? Why would you think she was there? Most likely she wasn't hiding behind anyone, she just had nothing to do with the situation at all
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