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Old Nov 28, 2017, 05:37 PM
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So last year I got fed up with a long term group of friends I was with and quit them all. I also quit a lot of people in my life that were "users."

I decided to devote my time to me.. and I did.

I have been spectacularly successful.
1. I lost 25 lbs.
2. I turned my semi furnished basement into a furnished one.
3. I have done a lot on investing
4. Another year, another good review at work.

But here is the thing...

there is no one to tell about it.
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Old Nov 28, 2017, 06:01 PM
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I'm so happy for you! Life is amazing without all those toxic people. I'm glad you realized that you can do so much better all on your own.

Maybe you don't have anyone to tell today ... but what matters is the wonderful things you accomplished this year.


Results of my year without friends..
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Old Nov 28, 2017, 06:07 PM
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Thank you! But it is a sobering thought that I really have to think about. What good is a good life if there is no one to tell about it? Yah know? At least for me. Maybe I have to find some good solid friends who do want to hear about it.
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Old Nov 28, 2017, 06:59 PM
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Congratulations on your accomplishments! I think you have a good idea to make some good solid friends as well. Good luck.
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Old Nov 28, 2017, 07:23 PM
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You just told us about it!! Congratulations!
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Old Nov 28, 2017, 08:06 PM
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Thank you! But it is a sobering thought that I really have to think about. What good is a good life if there is no one to tell about it? Yah know? At least for me. Maybe I have to find some good solid friends who do want to hear about it.
Hey, you told us.

Don't we count?
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Old Nov 28, 2017, 11:41 PM
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Congratulations! Like everyone said, you just told us.

You're right, go find a new good and close friend this time. No need for big group, just one or two true friend is enough.
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Old Nov 29, 2017, 06:40 AM
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Congratulations - and you've told us about it and this is the beginning of making friends, albeit online friends. We have a friend whom my family have known 11 years and recently met her and her fiancee. They came from Canada to stay with us.

I'm so happy for you, and what you have accomplished this year is tremendous.

All the best,
Julie
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