What can I do about my ex?

Basically, in my ex-boyfriend’s world, it’s ok if he moves on and is in a relationship, but it’s not ok for me to do it? I’m not saying I let him get involved in my life, but my question is, what can I do for him to stop him and protect myself?

I don’t let him get involved. He finds out this info, and I only tell a few people, and then he has his “buddies” figure out who the guy I am seeing is.

He just got married 4 months ago. However, when a man tries to enter my life or tries to date me, he doesn’t like it and goes and messes it up. By talking garbage about me, by hitting or going up to a guy who shows interest in me. I also haven’t seen him in 5 years, and this past summer was my first time seeing him again. I confronted him about our previous relationship since we were so toxic and he said to me, “I still love you, but I can’t be with you because I already promised another girl that I would marry her.”

If it also helps he has anger issues like nasty anger issues and in the past has hit my ex-boyfriend. The reason why he hit my ex-boyfriend was that he found out him and I was dating. He went up to my ex and asked him “What’s between you and M/N?” My boyfriend at that time replied “I love her” and he punched him for saying that. He also had my cousin spy on us. Even tried another time to beat up my boyfriend at that time by trying to take him somewhere far so he can beat him but my boyfriend got away.

I was also talking to his cousin once on Facebook, and we just had the usual, “Hey, How are you” conversations and I wake up one day and see that he has blocked me for no reason. I believe that reason was that of my ex. Also he had separate fb account to add me on but when I blocked him He started to use his real one with his picture on it. But I now have been dating someone else, and he doesn’t know, and I intend to keep it that way. I plan on moving back to the state he’s in because my family and friends live there.

Do you guys think this behavior will stop soon since he is married? or maybe has a kid? Why is he still doing this? Should I move back? Advice, please?

If he tries anything this time, report him to his wife.

No way she would appreciate his actions.

I'm sorry for what he is doing to you. That is absolutely awful. He has moved on, he should let you too.

This ex is doing this because he is struggling with the rejection and he doesn't want anyone else to succeed where he failed. That is the problem with this Facebook because it puts you out there where a toxic person like this can keep track of what you are doing and who you are with.

If you plan on moving back to where he lives? He will find other ways to intrude on you and chase away anyone who could possibly succeed where he failed. Just be prepared for that.

Oh and another thing, I found it most helpful to be upfront about my crazy ex... That way nobody is blindsided