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Old Apr 01, 2018, 06:51 PM
Betrayed92 Betrayed92 is offline
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It's a little depressing, how quickly my ex husband has moved on from me, but then maybe I just feel that way because I still haven't completely moved on from him. Is there anything advice anyone can give me to help me feel better ?
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Old Apr 01, 2018, 07:46 PM
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I would humbly state that I would need more info in any attempt to try to assist you.

Regardless, please accept my empathy and wishes for you to be well.

You are in command of yourself, your choices and decisions. I say the aforesaid statement because there is optimism and empowerment to acknowledge. You are freedom. Choose if you continue to be without one another or not. Though you may not have moved on from him, maybe, try to consider why you split, the perspectives that you do (and do not,) the emotions that you feel (and do not) and more.
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Old Apr 01, 2018, 07:51 PM
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Work on you. He is probably covering up his emotions or isn't very particular in his choices. I slept with a few women since the divorce, but neither was even allowed to mean anything to me. I regret one being that way because I recently found out that she's really a good person, just a bit too eager. The other was nutso and far too young.
But anyway, you'll move on when you're ready and it will happen when you're ready. I'm over a year since my d-day and clearly have no idea what I'm doing.
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Old Apr 01, 2018, 11:38 PM
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It's really hard coming to terms with this sort of thing ... I speak from first hand experience. I don't have advice on how to move forward 'more quickly' but I just wanted to acknowledge that your feelings are normal for this situation .
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Old Apr 02, 2018, 08:15 PM
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I want to thank everyone who replied, I think that I will just keep improving my self, and I also think that I will try therapy to help me move on.
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Old Apr 02, 2018, 09:26 PM
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I want to thank everyone who replied, I think that I will just keep improving my self, and I also think that I will try therapy to help me move on.
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