Feeling like dating is a numbers game -- I don't like feeling like another number

Jun 03, 2018 at 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by divine1966

Guys who talk about future on the first date or tell you how perfect you are before they even know you do it so you get all smitten and they can get into your pants quick. It’s old “love bombing” ploy. Good for you not falling for it. There are serious guys out there. Don’t lose hope

I fell for that "love bombing" once, as a guy
The truth is, I remember her. She asked me "Do you even KNOW me?!"
You're thinking I was pushing, but you'll be wrong. She LOVED hearing me talk to her like that. I almost told her "Why do I need to know you? Are you not good enough?" Almost. Of course, in a non-confrontational manner

divine1966 · Jun 03, 2018 at 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian

I fell for that "love bombing" once, as a guy
The truth is, I remember her. She asked me "Do you even KNOW me?!"
You're thinking I was pushing, but you'll be wrong. She LOVED hearing me talk to her like that. I almost told her "Why do I need to know you? Are you not good enough?" Almost. Of course, in a non-confrontational manner

It feels good to hear that stuff. Men who do it on purpose (not you) know that women love it hence they keep doing it. It works.

The whole romance scam industry is built on the idea that when women are vulnerable or desperate they’d fall for BS. BS has to be carefully crafted so woman thinks there is a deep connection very fast. That’s how scammers get women.

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