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Old Oct 18, 2018, 04:44 PM
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I don’t want to be that person who is hated

But it keeps happening

Ever since I was a cub

I’m a Bad Person and a Bad Member.

Wtf is wrong with me

What isn’t wrong with me

Maybe that’s the question
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Old Oct 18, 2018, 05:25 PM
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Can I give you a thousand HUGS?? I wish there was a multi-hug button on here!! You soooooooo deserve all that is good in life, dear Fuzzybear, including loads of love and hugs!!!!

You are not a bad person, you are not a bad member. You support everyone here with all your heartfelt love, warmth and sincerity. You are SOOOOO very sweet! One of the sweetest people I know on here... so please please please don't be so hard on yourself.

You are well loved.... by many on here, I am 100% sure!

((((((((((((Fuzzybear)))))))))))))))))))

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Old Oct 18, 2018, 06:05 PM
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Thanks my friend, I think I was being too hard on myself. I’ve known too many people who play others like a violin. the Step Maternal Unit being one of them. I think they hate me because I can see through them.

(Not about anyone here)
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Old Oct 18, 2018, 06:08 PM
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Thanks my friend, I think I was being too hard on myself. I’ve known too many people who play others like a violin. the Step Maternal Unit being one of them. I think they hate me because I can see through them.

(Not about anyone here)
Haters will unfortunately always exist. The key is to not let allow them to make you feel bad about who you are as a person. Haters will hate everyone and anyone that they think may be better than they in some way. That's the true source of hatred -- envy. AND when you can see right through them!! So let them hate on...... but don't change who YOU are, because you are a most lovely human being!!!!
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Old Oct 18, 2018, 06:43 PM
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I don’t want to be that person who is hated

But it keeps happening

Ever since I was a cub

I’m a Bad Person and a Bad Member.

Wtf is wrong with me

What isn’t wrong with me

Maybe that’s the question
I feel like this all the time!
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Old Oct 18, 2018, 06:56 PM
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There are some people in this world I don't mind being hated by. They are usually the ones who disagree with my values so intensley that they can't tolerate them. It is their issue not mine because I know what my values are based on.

Just remember those people who hate you aren't worth worrying about their hate....mostly those people are tje kind of people we really don't want anything to do with in the first place. I know there are just some people out thete who hate anyone who goes against the way they think.....I actually tend to value their hate as a validation that I am actually the one who is thinking on the right track.

Hope this logic makes sense

You are the one who is OK. Some people we just have to realize we can't care how they feel about us.
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Old Oct 18, 2018, 09:31 PM
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You are not a bad person or a bad member.

These ideas were taught to you by adults in your childhood.

Those adults were wrong.

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Old Oct 19, 2018, 10:12 PM
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Dear Fuzzy:

You are much beloved, much respected, and much admired.

Them's the facts, Pilgrim.

Hugs,

Chyia
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Old Oct 21, 2018, 05:49 PM
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Hugs! I definitely don’t hate you you seem like a wonderful, understanding and empathetic person xx
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Old Oct 21, 2018, 06:10 PM
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I have so much love and respect for you, dear bear!
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