Don’t know what to think

I don’t even know how to feel right now. After trying all day to stop thinking about my ex boyfriend, I answered his call. Like every time we ended up fighting. I told him that for 2 weeks, I have been trying to fix things with him calling and texting him and he has shown little interest in even talking to me. I asked that he would leave me alone. I work only on weekends at my family’s restaurant and he said that he would come over to talk to me there. I got so annoyed, I chased him for 2 weeks, I felt miserable, mistreated and used and now he wants to talk and then not only that but going to my job to do so. I’m so done! This guy could not keep on manipulating me!!! I sat down today and decided to make a list of the things I liked and didn’t about him. I could only write down 3 things I liked vs 13 I didn’t like. I don’t want to make me sound like a victim because I'm not! But I’m a caregiver, when I’m with a person, I make them the center of my world. I tried to please him in every way that I can. I did try to make it work! So, oh well, it didn’t, life goes on!!! This is an emotional roller coaster.

You could block him.

You could tell him not to show up at your job.

What do you think of those options?

The law states that 3 to 13 means you win and he loses.

Google it.

If that's how you feel, don't let him talk to you and manipulate you. You did your best, you tried hard, and it's not working out. That list of negatives outweighs the positives for sure. You could just tell him, this is over, so please leave me alone. I don't want to talk to you.

I already told him that I didn’t want him to show up at my work, that my family would not go against me for him. I haven’t blocked him, every time I wanna do it, I feel weird. This morning I woke up feeling nervous like every other day thinking about him but I haven’t tried to communicate with him. Regardless of the way I feel, I’m going to stay away from him. I know that little by little I am going to start feeling better. Thank you for your words, I don’t have anybody to talk to and this site really helps me out.

Avoid him at all costs. And try to block him... I know it's hard.

It’s been almost 24 hrs since we last talked and he didn’t show up at work.