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Old Nov 20, 2018, 02:37 PM
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Some of the “family” and others in real life, tell me how “horrible” I am, in subtle and not so subtle ways. After a life time of this I’m tired of it. Other than some people simply being bullies I think part of it is that I have a strong bs detector. They don’t like that.

And I’m sensitive. Some people.. think this equals weak. Wrong. But maybe I’m on the wrong planet...

It hurts being hated by mean people. And their mean antics hurt me. I wish it didn’t hurt.

I wish I could hibernate

(Not about anyone on pc)
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Old Nov 20, 2018, 07:40 PM
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I opened this earlier, fuzzybear, then the phone started ringing, the kids stomachs were growling and I needed to sift through a time of it that I feel like I've been having and not sure if it's moreso than usual or I'm just not in a place of strength to withstand it right now.

I'm glad you wrote this out. It touched a bit of what I'm feeling in my own life for sure.
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Old Nov 21, 2018, 10:27 AM
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Old Nov 21, 2018, 01:06 PM
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((((Fuzzybear)))) You're definitely NOT weak. I'm sorry you were treated this way, you don't deserve it at all
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Old Nov 21, 2018, 01:37 PM
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(((Fuzzy))), don't let these people keep insulting you. Tell them to their face what you think. Okay? I mean that. Don't keep abusive people in youir life Fuzzy. It's better to walk alone than to walk with fools. Trust me, it's the correct way Fuzzy. My heart goes out to you. Tell them or get rid of them.
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Old Nov 21, 2018, 02:20 PM
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(((((fuzzy)))) the key is not believe the mean words said and to not absorb them into your being. Deflect them off yourself.... they are meaningless, unfounded, unsubstantiated words that don't stick if you don't let them. These people in your life who put you down only do so to feel more empowered themselves, because they feel inferior and lowly in some way. And they are absolutely 100% correct! They ARE inferior and lowly. Strong, good natured, good-hearted people do not need to put others down to feel more important or better about themselves. Only weak, mean-hearted, bad people do this. And that is exactly what these people are... WEAK and mean-hearted. So please view them this way and don't allow their cruelty to be absorbed. I know, easier said than done, but it's all BS.. you are so much better than that. These people don't even deserve you in their lives. And you are not weak just because you're sensitive. (((((fuzzy)))))
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Old Nov 21, 2018, 03:05 PM
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Oh, Fuzzy. You're not horrible, and you don't have to listen to anyone who has the indecency to say you are. I called someone on her bs and she 'punished' me by not talking to me anymore. Silence, blessed silence.

And I get it if this is family mistreating you. Been there and suffered that. Until I walked away and now I don't have to suffer anymore.

Draw decent loving people toward you and show your teeth to everyone else, no matter any genetics involved. (((Fuzzy-bear-i-kin-kin-kin-kins)))
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Old Nov 21, 2018, 04:24 PM
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(((((Fuzzy))))) anyone who says anything about my favouritest Fuzzybear are liars liars pants on fires
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Old Nov 22, 2018, 09:16 AM
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((((Fuzzy)))))) you are a good person. Don't listen to those people
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