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Old Dec 19, 2018, 04:19 PM
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He's selling himself by way of deception. There are no mitigating circumstances. Smack him upside the head with an aluminum bat.
I agree dump him.

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Old Dec 19, 2018, 04:20 PM
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I would admit you saw it and end the relationship right then and there. You need tested for STD’s.

Be grateful you didn’t have a long time invested in him
I would end the relationship and then get tested for std.
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Old Dec 19, 2018, 04:22 PM
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this has nothing at all to do with you making a judgment about his sexuality, it doesn't even need to be the focus of the dialog. The fact that your partner is having casual sex secretly with other people is the problem regardless of the orientation of said encounters.

I would not keep this to yourself for one second. In addition to the idea he's stupid for cheating in the first place it's his own darned fault for leaving the email logged in on your computer so you didn't even have to snoop to find out. You're free to mention what you saw, I think. But you dont' even need to justify yourself. walk away. Just tell him matter-of-fact that he's a cheater and you want someone that's faithful and leave it at that.

I said walk. I meant RUN.
It sound like a plan.
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Old Dec 19, 2018, 04:23 PM
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I'm so sorry you're struggling, missunderstood93 I'd say run away from him as soon as you can. He's cheating and lying on you, and it has nothing to do with the fact that he's seeing men... how would you have reacted if he was seeing women instead? Please dump him as soon as you can. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this
I agree that he is cheating on you.
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Old Dec 19, 2018, 04:35 PM
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For me, it's the betrayal of the relationship time and time again!

Nope! ... That's It! ... Done! ... Finito!

Time for him to pack his @#$%! & get the @#$%! out!

It's also imparative that you get tested for STD's immediately, then again in 3 months and yet again in 6 months!

Do not delay on this!

Your very life could depend on it!
I agree that it time for him to leave.
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