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#1
Feb 01, 2019, 06:01 PM
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Really really evident because you can hide the feelings and your face become a tomato...
If that person doesn't like you, what would that person do? Or what would you do if you were in his place?
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thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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#2
Feb 01, 2019, 07:03 PM
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It's hard to say because it depends on the type of like or dislike, I'd imagine. There could be a plethora of ways and non ways.
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#3
Feb 01, 2019, 07:40 PM
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Crazy, inside and aside Meds: bye bye meds CPTSD and some sort of depression and weird perceptions "Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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#4
Feb 01, 2019, 07:47 PM
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It's still hard to say. Unless they are actually telling you to get lost...there aren't too many certainties.
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#5
Feb 01, 2019, 07:51 PM
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He actually told me he enjoys when I am around, but..... I guess It could be possible he just likes me as a friend and doesn't mind I like him romantically.... 
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Crazy, inside and aside Meds: bye bye meds CPTSD and some sort of depression and weird perceptions "Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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#6
Feb 01, 2019, 07:59 PM
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At the least sounds like an inkling of a chemical reaction. I'd recommend letting things unfold in their own time. |
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#7
Feb 01, 2019, 08:08 PM
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I haven't directly told him (I will call him S). But when I talk about S, it's evident to the person I am talking to that I like S because of my non-verbal reaction. I get nervous in a funny way, blush, my tone of voice is different, ... It also happens when I talk with S. I will just wait a little bit more  Thank you 
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Crazy, inside and aside Meds: bye bye meds CPTSD and some sort of depression and weird perceptions "Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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Feb 01, 2019, 08:13 PM
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Feb 02, 2019, 04:39 AM
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The situation is more complex since S is in a different "position" than us (like a employee and his boss).
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Crazy, inside and aside Meds: bye bye meds CPTSD and some sort of depression and weird perceptions "Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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Feb 02, 2019, 05:16 AM
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Feb 02, 2019, 06:12 AM
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No, it's just a similar situation (I have less power). But it is not permanent.
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Crazy, inside and aside Meds: bye bye meds CPTSD and some sort of depression and weird perceptions "Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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#12
Feb 02, 2019, 06:21 AM
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Are there other men in other areas of your life that catch your interest?
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#13
Feb 02, 2019, 06:27 AM
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I am in my early twenties (he is not much older).
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Crazy, inside and aside Meds: bye bye meds CPTSD and some sort of depression and weird perceptions "Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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#14
Feb 02, 2019, 06:30 AM
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What is it about his qualities that stirred up such unexpecting feelings?
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Feb 02, 2019, 08:13 AM
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.... He is kind, gentle, a little playful even if shy (in a cute way), helpful, hard working, wise and always looks calm 
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Crazy, inside and aside Meds: bye bye meds CPTSD and some sort of depression and weird perceptions "Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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#16
Feb 02, 2019, 12:48 PM
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Maybe this crush is opening a pandoras door to your ability to be interested in others?
Those sound like some pleasant qualities to keep in mind. |
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#17
Feb 02, 2019, 01:21 PM
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Did he change his behavior recently, OliverB? Have you noticed any hints in the way he talks and behaves around ypu? If you don't, perhaps it isn't as obvious as you think. I agree with healingme4me that it depends on what kind of person he is. Like she has already said, I'd suggest to wait a short while and see how it goes from there. Perhaps you coul try to ask him out if you feel like it. It's the only way to know for sure. I know it isn't easy, though. The final decision is up to you. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you
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#18
Feb 02, 2019, 04:30 PM
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He is a very nice person, we share mental health problems... and understand each other... Quote:
I have sent you an PM............. 
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Crazy, inside and aside Meds: bye bye meds CPTSD and some sort of depression and weird perceptions "Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance." I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison- |
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