[IJustWantToBeAGirl]

Okay, so there was some guy i met, and he seemed nice cause he bought me food and even got me a gift.. and as i stayed there for a week, he did things that were red flags. like, he told me he had a way to see who his ex texted, and called.. and he even said he knew how to upgrade phones, and when he asked to see mine, he texted some of my guy friends saying that he's my new friend and to not contact me anymore. he even told me not to text them either, or it's over. then he'd talk nice and try to hug me sometimes. so after a week, i asked if i can go back to a sibling's house, and maybe see him another time, and he said it was fine. but when i got back, he said i just used him and that he won't contact me anymore.. but he kept sending messages saying i'll regret it, and no one will treat me like he did.. it just scares me.

[divine1966]

He sounds unstable and controlling. Block him and be safe please

[Bill3]

Block him and stay far away from this guy.

[Have Hope]

Yikes!!! Red flags all over the place! Yes block him and stay away from him. He’s controlling and dangerous.

Get out now! This guy is bad news.

[MickeyCheeky]

I'm so so sorry you're going through all of this, IJustWantToBeAGirl! I agree with what all the others have already wisely said better than I ever could! This guys seems VERY dangerous! Block him and stay away from him as much as you can! I'm so sorry you're going through all of this! You deserve much, MUCH better than him! I'm sure you'll be asble to find someone who loves you fro who you truly are and that WON'T be abusive or controllogin! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, IJustWantToBeAGirl! Please dont'g ive up hope! Try to hang on as much as you can! Keep fighting! We all believe in you! You're a strong, wonderful person! Please remember that! Keep fighting! Believe in yourself the same way we believe in you if you can! You deserve to live an happy life with someone who loves you and that you love back just like everyone elsed does! Keep fighting! Remember that you're an awesome, strong warrior! Please remember that! Keep fighting!

[qlvl]

I agree with all the others, the guy sounds downright dangerous. My advice would be to block him and stay away from him. Hopefully that will do the trick, but in the event it doesn't and you have to involve others, please keep the text messages and any other creepy/threatening communications.

[Open Eyes]

Trust your gut about this individual. He was showing you some things about himself right away, priding himself on keeping track of his ex then taking YOUR phone and making sure to delete your friends and contacts. It's best to pay attention to these obvious warning signs and make it a point to block him out of your life, doesn't matter what he says either, get away from him.

Yes, there are some toxic and controlling people out there in this world. Listen to your gut and don't be afraid to walk away from people that are intrusive and controlling.

[LiteraryLark]

I'd get a restraining order against him. He will control you and manipulate him and he has a great probability of becoming physically violent.