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Old May 03, 2020, 01:16 PM
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So, a girl I have not talked to in a while recently started talking to me (via internet) a lot more often once she noticed my 30 pound weight loss. We would text each other everyday or every other day. I would flirt with her and said we should hang etc and it seemed like she was following along.. Obviously can't do any of that now because of quarantine. She has initiated convos with me and I do with her. However, recently she posted a photo of her and i told her i thought she looked very pretty and she replied 'thank you!'. I said 'you're welcome' and I was waiting for her to initiate convo and I have not heard anything back last few days. I hope I was not misreading signals so I am waiting for her to initiate convo back to me and I have not heard anything. I would think if she was into me she would have said that she thought I was cute too, but I guess that is not the case. Any ideas??? Thoughts??

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Old May 03, 2020, 02:39 PM
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Are you a male or female yourself? I don't necessarily think that she should have to say anything back like "you're cute too." Even if she likes you.

If you're worried and hope everything's ok, tell her. If you want to know if she likes you, or want to express interest yourself, you could come out and ask.

She may be oblivious to you liking her, even with the "pretty" comment. And honestly I know its a "woman's world" now but its still also really not and if she herself is shy, you're going to have to express interest or something, if you're a guy.
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Old May 03, 2020, 09:37 PM
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Send her another message.
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Old May 03, 2020, 10:39 PM
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You may be right. If she said you were cute it would have been easy to say at that time and would mean she liked you that way. But it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you just because she didn’t say it. I agree, send another message and keep the conversation going. Try to see each other in person, when we can finally be social again.
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Old May 04, 2020, 03:14 AM
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I think you’re reading way too much into it.

Feel free to message her about a new topic.
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Old May 07, 2020, 09:19 AM
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It doesn't mean she's not interested if she didn't message back/mention that you're cute as well. She probably didn't know how to continue the conversation. Message her something cute like "how was your day?" or how her quarantine is going. Don't read too much into it...you're fine.
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Old May 07, 2020, 10:42 AM
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To some people in my experience it can feel and/or sound insincere to instantly give back an identical compliment.

I agree with the others. Message her again and forget about whether or not she thinks you are cute.
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Old May 08, 2020, 05:43 PM
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I agree with the others. Message her again and don't worry about whether or not she says you are cute.

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