I've been on this forum for a while. I've noticed, due to hindsight, I sometimes write irrelevant posts with respect to the context. It may be caused by my anxiety. So I am left wondering how can I make my messages (oral or written), more concise, and direct?

In the offline world, it is not that much of a problem but I have to admit sometimes I just ramble while talking to friends.

Originally Posted by Stephen Strange

I've been on this forum for a while. I've noticed, due to hindsight, I sometimes write irrelevant posts with respect to the context. It may be caused by my anxiety. So I am left wondering how can I make my messages (oral or written), more concise, and direct?

In the offline world, it is not that much of a problem but I have to admit sometimes I just ramble while talking to friends.

I don't find your posts irrelevant at all SS. I think you have very good communication skills. I for one don't always respond as much as I'd like or as extensively because I am feeling very tired and depressed. That's not a reflection of the quality of your posts or anyone else's. Maybe you're a bit too hard on yourself? You said it's not a problem in the offline world. that's a really good sign! It is much harder to connect with people via written word only versus in person. if you feel like it's going well in person, I think you've nothing to worry about.

Keep being yourself. You are good as you are!

Originally Posted by SilverTrees

I don't find your posts irrelevant at all SS. I think you have very good communication skills. I for one don't always respond as much as I'd like or as extensively because I am feeling very tired and depressed. That's not a reflection of the quality of your posts or anyone else's. Maybe you're a bit too hard on yourself? You said it's not a problem in the offline world. that's a really good sign! It is much harder to connect with people via written word only versus in person. if you feel like it's going well in person, I think you've nothing to worry about.

Keep being yourself. You are good as you are!

Thank you for the feedback, Silver. However, I've noticed it's not always the case that I am not rambling. Not that I can be perfect in any way, but I still think it's an issue to ponder upon.

Originally Posted by Stephen Strange

I've been on this forum for a while. I've noticed, due to hindsight, I sometimes write irrelevant posts with respect to the context. It may be caused by my anxiety. So I am left wondering how can I make my messages (oral or written), more concise, and direct?

In the offline world, it is not that much of a problem but I have to admit sometimes I just ramble while talking to friends.

It's totally fine to vent, and you can let people know that you are venting.

[Mike1991]

Someone told me that my communication skills are getting better. I don't know? I find it hard to tell. I believe my talking is like everyone else.

Originally Posted by Mike1991

Someone told me that my communication skills are getting better. I don't know? I find it hard to tell. I believe my talking is like everyone else.

Can't tell that for sure but it could be "auto-learning" just by talking daily.

[Mike1991]

That quote made my day. Thanks!