[brokenheart]

it has been two weeks now and i have been free from him. why does it hurt so much? all the bruises have healed, but the wound in my heart is so fresh. i have support from my coworkers. i have lost everything though. he has been threatening me and i know he does it to show he is in control. How can I break free from this tormenting pain in my heart?

[Sesquix]

Is it possible to get away on a vacation or go away for the weekend to have a sabatical from your problems? All I can recommend is to find a hobby really fast or take up martial arts, yoga or something to occupy your time and strengthen your mind. much luck. Sesquix

[gloria]

Give yourself time. It has not been that long. Time heals just about everything, but it takes time.

Take care of yourself and keep occupied, that helps.

gab

[unicornlover]

If he has left any verbal threats on answering machine or voice mail. You could always file harassment charges against him and get a restraining order if you feel your life is in danger. You could also go stay with a friend out of town if necessary, or as mentioned go through some type of martial arts class. The pain in your heart will ease with time, trust me I know. My exhusband divorced me after he told me he never loved me. We were together for 6 years.