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Old Oct 06, 2019, 10:29 AM
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So I realize me and this guy really don’t have much in common..we enjoy each others company but that’s not enough to continue seeing him. He’s in his mid 40’s, never married no kids. I do family things with my son, he can’t possibly relate to..I want someone who is happy to do those things together, not someone who laughs about it. You could say his behavior is immature, and he’s really not on my level. He claimed that he wants to get married bla bla bla..but his actions show me that he’s a Middle Ages man still in party mode. At his age, he should have his life figured out, and since I met him he has been figuring out his life but says he’s ambitious..🤮
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Old Oct 06, 2019, 12:09 PM
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Yeah, I COMPLETELY agree with you that he sounds like BAD NEWS, @Disney2019! If you feel like the Relationship just isn't working out, please definitely leave him. There's no shame in doing that after all! You deserve better and someone who will ACTUALLY treat you with the RESPECT AND LOVE THAT YOU DO NEED AND DESERVE! So yes, please, definitely stand up for yourself and find someone else that will TRULY Love you if you still want to pursue a Relationship! You deserve MUCH, MUCH, MUCH, MUCH, MUCH BETTER THAN THIS! I PROMISE YOU THAT! THAT'S A PROMISE! YOU CAN REST ASSURED OF THAT! Feel free to PM me ANYTIME when you want to and when you need Advice and Support or even simply someone to talk to or vent to! I am SURE plenty of others will be REALLY HAPPY to listen to what you have to say as well! THAT'S A PROMISE! I PROMISE YOU THAT! YOU CAN REST ASSURED OF THAT! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and your boyfriend, @Disney2019, your family, your friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING! PLEASE NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER GIVE UP HOPE NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS!
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Old Oct 06, 2019, 06:29 PM
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Good for you. You deserve better. Listen to your guts, if you feel anxious in a relationship it’s often because it’s just not right. Not necessarily you being clingy. Hugs
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