[Zenobia]

I am excited and apprehesive. When my husband and I went to the book store while X-mas shopping today I found in the journal section a book called All About Us. It is a question book that couples do together to learn about each other. I showed it to my hubby and he thought it was great. We are, afterall, trying to increase communication and to learn about each other. I am excited because he showed me his commitment to improving our understanding of one another. I am aprehensive because there are questions that are not going to be easy to answer. I have made a decision about it though. I am not going to lie. If there is a question that is too scary to answer I am going to tell him so and let him know that I may be able to answer it at a later date. I think he will understand.
Zen

<font color=green>The snow falls on no two trees alike, and the forms it assumes are as various as those of the twigs and leaves which recieve it...so one divine spirit decends alike on all, but bears a peculiar fruit in each--Henry David Thoreau

[bptoo]

Zen, I just wanted to say that's it's amazing how incredibly devoted you are to building a strong relationship with your husband...well, both of you are. In a day and age where divorce seems like such a viable alternative for so many, to see a lot of people here working so hard to make their relationships work is inspirational. Thanks for sharing this, it was a definite feel-good.

bp

"A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart."