[rukspc]

How do you beat indecision? My boyfriend and I have fought several times in the past few months about moving out together. We have been dating almost 2.5 years. I have made the decision to move out as of last month. Recently, his mother had a recent health issue and I suggested pushing the move date back more about a month until she gets better.

He misunderstood me and, given the record of my indecision, he took it as an excuse to not move out. I want him to trust me and help him see how much I care and respect his family. I thought the suggestion was well-intentioned. I don't know.

I love him but I really feel like one day he won't have that patience, and will break up with me.

[stefano]

I think that your BF needs to understand your issues. You are like you are including being indecisive. You are doing your best and he should appreciate it.
Patience is not understanding.

[Molinit]

I'd put moving in together on the permanent back burner in this case. Tell him you've made the decision to only move in with him if you are married.

[MickeyCheeky]

Well, I think he needs to respect you first of all. I understand he may feel upset or stressed out, but he still needs you to respect you and ALL the others. Just keep working on yourself. That's all you can do after all, right? I'd suggest to talk to him and make him understand that you0're just saying that out of genuine concern! Hopefully he'll understand and start to appreciate what you're trying to do! In the meantime, keep working on yourself at your own time and pace! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @rukspc, your Husband, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking no matter what happens, ok?