Is he a narcissist?

From what you have shared of this guy, he was looking for ways to control you and have you praise him as "superior". He is looking for a woman that puts him on a pedastal where HE is superior. In other words, you have to fit in HIS world otherwise you can never be good enough or nice enough or worthy enough for him.

From what you have described of him, while he may have provided "some" nicities on your date, he made it clear to you how the world revolves around "him". People like that don't really consider and respect how YOU feel and what YOU care about, instead things have to revolve around THEM. People like this are more apt to cheat, they get bored when they don't get enough attention and are not all that interested in what is really important to others unless ofcourse it in some way benefits them. They also tend to be "selfish" sexually, it's all about what gives "them" satisfaction and they don't know how to really "love and give" to others. Also, if things don't go well, it's your fault cause they are NEVER the ones at fault.