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My husband has ADHD and can have temper flares when things don't go his way. It may be this girl has a parent that struggles with it too, it is hereditary.
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Oh I see. I thought these are all your coworkers. I was like “this work place is crazy” lol
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My husband has ADHD, severe OCD and Tourette’s syndrome. And he never ever dated a coworker or acted like he can’t control himself and if he acted like this at work, he’d be likely fired and lose state license.
ADHD is extremely common and is not an excuse for acting like this on a job whatsoever. People get paid for doing their job, not acting like a work place is a social teenage club. If one wants to keep a job, especially professional job, they ought to not date af work, not act inappropriately and not make fool of themselves. You might need some higher quality friends. |
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Yeah my friend’s mom has the same problem. Actually my friend’s mom is worse. She will start screaming to the point where she is incoherent and even start bawling out of control. That’s worse than what my friend does.
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And in terms of diagnosing her, yeah I would never actually diagnose anyone, even her. It is more of an observation and yeah there is absolutely no excuse for her behavior. I am deaf and I don’t make excuses for my hearing problems. And I hear that those with ADHD can have extreme anger but not always. I guess it depends. I think it is due to how she was raised since her mom is worse. Her mom can go to the point of screaming so loudly and crying so hard that you can hear her outside the house. If I didn’t know any better, I would wonder if there was some sort of dysfunction in the house due to how easily she is to anger over the smallest trivial things. So my friend gets it from her most likely, just not as bad. And yeah, it makes me uncomfortable that she befriends those still in high school especially since I work in a high school and I know that any unprofessional friendship like that is grounds for immediate termination and possibly worse. So my instincts scream no anytime I see her talking to a 16 year old about non-work related topics. We don’t work together though. She works at a fast food restaurant where the rules may be a bit lenient but it’s still weird and unprofessional to behave that way. Last edited by rdgrad15; Jan 16, 2020 at 09:15 AM.. |
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