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Old Apr 30, 2020, 11:01 AM
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My little sister is always trying to get me in trouble. And its not like I am very mischievous but, she still finds a way for me to get in trouble. She takes pride in seeing me hurt, she loves to annoy me, and hit me. My parents just that its her way of saying she loves me but, I seriously doubt it. She acts decent when our parents are around but when its just the two of us, she comes at me both emotionally and physically. I want to stop talking to her but my parents say I am being to harsh. Am I?
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Old Apr 30, 2020, 03:11 PM
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How old are you both?
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Old Apr 30, 2020, 03:24 PM
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She is jealous and is trying to lower your self esteem so she can feel superior. This is something your parents need to address otherwise your sister will turn into a bully and they won’t be happy when she gets older and more manipulative and willful with them.

This is her effort to get dominance over you so don’t allow her to have it. Often it’s in our own family that we face these challenges.
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Old Apr 30, 2020, 03:44 PM
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It’s unacceptable. She hits you, wow.

I have a sense that you might be young? A child? Teen?

If your parents don’t put a stop to it l, I recommend you speak to an adult at school: counselor, social worker, school nurse, a teacher, principal, coach etc They would know what steps to follow. Please do so
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Old Apr 30, 2020, 06:18 PM
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I am the youngest of two sisters

When we were kids, I often used to be annoying. Seeking her attention being jealous of her friendships, and even act like a little bully sometimes

I agree with what has already been said, your parents or any other adult supportive figure should take some charge. You need your space

Maybe try to speak to her even if it wont be easy.
Young people deal with a lot of insecurities and fear of flaws, and they accumulate social anxiety at school or outside and often "explode" at home, but sometimes they are confused also about this, since they also need peace and quiet to carry on
But being respecful is a must
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Old Apr 30, 2020, 06:31 PM
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I am the youngest of two sisters

When we were kids, I often used to be annoying. Seeking her attention being jealous of her friendships, and even act like a little bully sometimes

I agree with what has already been said, your parents or any other adult supportive figure should take some charge. You need your space

Maybe try to speak to her even if it wont be easy.
Young people deal with a lot of insecurities and fear of flaws, and they accumulate social anxiety at school or outside and often "explode" at home, but sometimes they are confused also about this, since they also need peace and quiet to carry on
But being respecful is a must
You know. What you wrote here says a lot of your worth as a person.
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